We have a good relationship, for the most part, but he has not worn his ring for a while now and i have asked him to..... anyone else have this problem???
2007-09-28 15:50:23 · 22 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ask why - there could be many very innocent reasons...
job hazard
too snug now
doesn't like the ring itself anymore (tastes do change)
maybe the gold got scratched and he doesn't know it can be buffed out and/or he doesn't want it to get worse.
my hubby stopped wearing his for a week when i asked why he thought he had gotten some poison ivy on it - it made him break out. we got it cleaned and it stopped.
all you can do is ask.
2007-09-28 16:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by mender_bender2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not usually, but if you trust him and have not had any hints of him even remotely being unfaithful, then it would not bother me much. Now if he's mainly wearing it around the house in front of you, but not to work, out with the guys, etc. I would be very upset.
If he used to wear it regularly, but does not now, I would ask him what is going on! It could be something like he has gained weight or lost weight and the fit is not right anymore or could be another reason. if he says nothing is wrong ask him to start wearing it again if he refuses then something is most definitely up!
2007-09-28 16:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad has never worn his ring. Due to the nature of his job it is unsafe for him to do so. I am not sure if that is the case with your husband or not, but I do know that it is a common thing for men not to wear their rings. Not sure why but it must just be a guy thing.
2007-09-28 16:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by ventity325 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well first consider what kind of work does he do? My uncle who delivers for UPS never wore his then come to find out he had several g-friends on his route. But, then there are some guys who work with there hands and don't want it to get scratched or hung up so they only wear it when they are showered, clean, and going out. There are buisness men who travel and never take it off. I would consider everything and then decide if it's a big deal. Good Luck.
2007-09-28 15:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him about it. Tell him how much you love him and how special you feel when he wears it.
If your biggest "problem" is that he's not wearing his ring, then I 'd say you are VERY lucky. Don't make this into a problem.
Perhaps he will wear it when you are together or go out together .
2007-09-29 17:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by June B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends...what reason does he give for not wearing it? There are some men who work in very dirty jobs or who are very manly and just CAN'T get used to wearing a ring. Then there are some men who want to feel free to cheat! Only you can get a feeling for what category your man falls into!
2007-09-28 18:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was wearing it and then stopped, I would be very suspicious. It may be nothing but check it out. Ask him why he has chosen not to wear it and make sure you get a better answer than, "I just don't feel like it."
2007-09-28 16:18:01 · answer #7 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad could not wear his. He worked with tar . Could it be he cant wear it for work? He could just not like rings. It could be a a sign of a larger problem.
2007-09-28 15:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him what changed or why he decided to stop. If something has not drastically changed in his job (switched to an entirely new field where he can't wear it, etc.) then I think you have a problem. Investigate!
2007-09-28 15:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Galactica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom/stepdad. My stepdad doesnt like wearing the ring. Its not that he doesnt like the RING, just wearing it bothers him. Its not to much of a problem, but if you ask him nicely.....=)
2007-09-28 15:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Funfetti♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋