9 m. pregnant. feeling stress about my hubby family. his family treated me nice . but then a few incidents that happen.1.was i had a fight with my hubby so i look for my mom in law comfort, instead she came with an attitude demanding to know all the details an saying she made the decision for us to break up.later me an him reconcile,an she appoligize so i accept.2. i was planning my baby shower with her.but then she kept making excuses an leaving it for the last minute.then she finally came around but instead of telling me the details she left me in the dark an kept telling my hubby the details.3.at my b.shower.all my family was there his family was there .but his family didnt want to be anywhere near my family givng them dirty looks.an throwing me indirects.even treating my nieces badly.but why since his family never new my fam before.so anyway we since then havent talk to them. now there leaving hate message to me an my mom.like i have a tumor in my head.going to his job. an more
2007-09-28 15:40:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your husband. He needs to be the one that stands up for you & makes sure they are not disrespecting you in anyway. He needs to realize you & his unborn child are his priorities, distance yourself from the old hag, she sounds wreteched, theres no law that says you need to hang with your inlaws, move away if you can, & tune them out. Concentrate on yourself your baby & your man. They can't ruin you if you don't let them. Stay positive, it sucks when you marry into more than you bargained for.
2007-09-28 19:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by In♥w/mykids! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moan and groan. Sounds like you are too immature to have a kid. If your "hubbie" takes moms side, you need to get him away. Cut the apron strings. Or get a man. Sounds like you made your bed. Lie in it or get a new one. Quit moaning and crying "poor me" it WILL affect the baby. The baby should not be harmed because her mother is a child.
2007-09-28 23:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should limit your contact with your in-laws until after the baby is born. If it continues after the baby is born, still limit the contact. It's your life, your baby, and your family. Your husband should also step up and protect you from stress, even if it's coming from his own family.
2007-09-28 22:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥sick n tired♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have heard that when you get marry, is not just with your partner but the whole family (parents,sisters and brothers), but i know sometimes is hard because they don't like us or we don't like them, is better just to live your live not worry about them and if your partner prefer them let them be with them,and you with your family. If he understands you and think the same as you be happy with him and you newborn.Good luck with your baby. : )
2007-09-28 23:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by ♫♫♫ LOVE MUSIC ♫♫♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're going to be parents. Yippee.
2007-09-28 22:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋