-me and my boyfriend were kissing and got emotional we had no direct skin contacts in private areas since we had clothes on.but my pants were damp before we started messing with each other from my own discharge and after.idont know if he ejaculated on me or not during the act.
-can sperms pass through clothes he was very close and tight on me.
-am virgin or was one and i feel guilty of ever even starting the whole act
-am afraid of getting pregnant and i actual dont want too since am too young tring to make my life better and that was worst desicion ever made.
-how soon do pregnancy symptoms come coz i already startd feeling bad healthwise i dont know if its because of that or is it because i exercise alot,
-Am so stressed i havent told anyone since am considered innocent nobody would even believe i did anything like that.and i wanna take my personal measures to help myself since got into it by myself too.
-regret never taking any medcine or precaution
2007-09-28 13:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by laka1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, you're fine (you'd know if he ejaculated on you)! :) You're probably feeling bad because you're so stressed.
And you're STILL a virgin, as you haven't been...well, penetrated.
2007-09-28 13:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Legate Tatiana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be okay. Sperm can pass through cloth but it is highly unlikely. Second if your hymen is intact, the sperm cannot pass through it. If your hymen never ripped, you are okay. This was scary for you. To avoid it, have a protection plan because eventually you are going to give in. Just don't get pregnant or catch a disease. You won't regret losing you virginity if you chose to lose it. You will regret getting pregnant or STD. And guys are not going to be reponsible for your body. You're the driver and he's the passenger. At the end of the month, its your car not his. Good Luck.
2007-09-28 20:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "health symptoms" are only from your stress. Your mind will react in certain ways, making you experience whatever you think you're having. No, sperm cannot pass through clothes. And considering he was probably just grinding on you, he most likely didn't even ejaculate. Don't worry about it. You're just over reacting. The sperm needs to get into you, and that's the only way you can get pregnant. Listen in health/science class a little more next time?
2007-09-28 20:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he didn't succeed inserting his penis in yours, no problem, you're still a virgin. And don't worry, even if he ejaculated from the outside, only few seconds for the sperm to live when exposed to air, there's no change for a sperm to survive and penetrate your pants. traveling and passing through your pants and undies takes time and then very impossible to swim inside you. That damp in you is due to your excitement and it's natural.
2007-09-28 20:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by dalton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it, the sperm can not survive going through clothes, since sperm need moisture to live. Your clothes would be too dry for them to individually swim through. Also those that didn't die probably would never even make it into your vagina. Seriously, don't worry about it. If there was penetration--worry about it. But through clothes? You can relax. You are fine.
Also, don't be surprised if your period is late this month. Stress can make your periods late... and it sounds to me like you are stressing a LOT.
Try not to feel guilty. Us girls almost always go through emotions like this when we first become sexually active. Maybe this just means you aren't ready to become sexually active since this obviously terrified you. Think more about if you are ready to start being sexually active.
Good luck.
2007-09-28 20:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that sperm can travel through clothing, but since it was pants I think your chances are 0 to none of being pregnant. I'm not saying it's impossible, but I think your safe. I think you need to talk to one of your closer friends about this because if your having regrets about it you need to talk about it.
Pregnancy symptoms usually show up I think at 3 months, just depends on the person. You probably are feeling that way because of slight fear and guilt.
2007-09-28 20:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by crystal_of_ravenclaw 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk about the getting pregnant with cloths on stuff, but you can take a test and you would be able to tell. also since you might be thinking your pregnant, your mind could be playing games with you so your thinking it symptoms. i know because i did the same and everything was ok. just take the test, first thing in the morning. let me know what happen. darkybirdblue@yahoo.com. and don't regret what you did, nor feel bad it would have happen sooner or later, once you was force to do anything, and you are happy about who the guy is. email me.
2007-09-28 20:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by Trinidarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility that sperm can go through your clothes. But I think that you are not pregnant. My best advice to you is to not beat yourself up about it. You made a mistake and you will get through it. Don't worry, if you don't have your period then that is one way of knowing, but don't stress about it, or exercise more than you do because that can also make you miss your period. Their are symptons of pregnancy. But I don't think you are. And it is also to early to tell if you are pregnant.
2007-09-28 20:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off calm down --- you are still a virgin --- the likelyhood of you being pregnant is so low to be non existent ---- you are no different to millions of ladies the world over nor will it change in the future --- i suggest you get a GOOD book on women (Everywoman is excellent and still in print) and read up on yourself pregnacy sex everything you need to know --- and make sure when you have sex that you use protection --- this time was not sex just mutual masturbation ---- best wishes
2007-09-28 20:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible (but unlikely) for sperm to travel through thin clothing (like underwear), but they cannot travel through thicker clothing (like jeans). Multiple layers of thin clothing (like underwear and pajama bottoms or both partners wearing underwear) also can stop sperm.
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=pregnancy&refid=012
No, generally clothing acts as a barrier against sperm.
http://www.avert.org/faqpreg.htm#q7
From all of what I am reading.. this is a very good question. but I think you might have to worry if you were "soaked" and just had panties keeping him away from you... But from what I am reading through multiple layers of clothes(jeans and panties) then it is very unlikely..
2007-09-28 20:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋