Hi! I like this teacher who is 20 years elder to me. But I always fanatzise about him. However I'm hesitant to tell because 1. He is my teacher, 2. He is too elder than me, what shall I do, shall I ask him for a date??
2007-09-28 21:19:03 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sure why not,just think you can help him break up his marriage or his girlfriend so go for it I'm sure he will love you for it. Right!!
2007-09-28 21:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so you'll ask your teacher who is 20 yrs older than you.It's very immoral to do that, why not find someone of your own age group. Later on in life when you grow older like 20 yrs.old then you can chose a guy who is much older than you are. Its only fascination or just an idol for whatever you are feeling at the moment.It will just passed as days &years go by.
2007-09-28 21:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by shines56 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say your age so I don't know if your a minor or not. Either way what you are doing you need to keep inside as a fantasy only. It is wrong. Read the papers, and watch the news. Many teachers, and students are going to jail over affairs. Even if you are not a minor. There are what is known as position of authority laws, and others that kick in if the incest or affair isn't prosecutable. Leave this alone.
2007-09-28 21:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would have a cup of tea/coffee with you in the afternoon or on the weekend. Nothing wrong about the fact that he's your teacher and him being older than you. Talk to him alot and get closer.
But there is a risk - if your classmates find out, you might be humiliated. Your teacher might be fired if the school finds out, too. Just be careful with that.
Good luck!
2007-09-28 21:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in that situation before, but my love interest was not that older than me. Why don't you wait until you've finished the class make any moves? First, it would releave any tension. You will no longer be his student. And if a relationship does blossom, then rumors won't be spreading around about how you are doing this to get a better grade. Besides, do let the dude be professional during his working time. You don't want his colleagues be rumoring about how he is "seducing" a student. If you are brave enough, make the move when you are no longer his student. Good luck, friend.
2007-09-28 21:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Xine Olivia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
these things, even if your teacher eneds up having feeling for you too, almost never end well, unfortunately: I know it's not easy to forget about a crush, also since you have to see him every day or so, but in my opinion it's better if you forget about it, it brings too many thoughts and complications that in school time are really dangerous and heavy.
:)
2007-09-28 21:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by nejem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No do not ask him for a date as this could lead to him losing his job,accept that it is an innocent crush(unless you become obssessed) & leave it at that,lots of school girls get crushes on thier teachers but its just a passing thing,hopefully yours will be too!
2007-09-28 21:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He HELPS you. It's natural to find that attractive. I wouldn't ask him for a date. Sounds more like you are infatuated with him. Do you even know what he is like outside of the classroom? Are you sure he is single? So, I would say, NO.
2007-09-28 21:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No please don't, I know this is hard and you can't believe it now, but it will blow over. Save yourself the hurt and agony and just focus on something else to take your mind off him!! It might take a few months, but that is better than ruining the rest of your life, be wise and think of yourself first.
2007-09-28 22:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by piano19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all love our teachers.
i loved ms. stollerman, ms.umbers and ms. norfleet, however, it was just that, a student who lovingly admired his teachers.
the difference is, you want to be in love with your teacher.
you don't act on, or, try to act on your admiration for your teacher. what you are thinking is inappropriate.
come back down to earth.
2007-09-28 21:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋