ive been with this guy for 5 years on and off but straight for 1 and 5 months.he constantly breaks my heart and lies and lies and lies.. everytime we break up he always talks to this one girl.. i have no trust in him. its long distance.. and i break up with him when he hurts me.. and then he wont call me all weekend but will call me on the weekdays ONLY and wants me back and is "sorry" then i let him in again and when it comes to weekends he wont talk to me..so its basically like his free time out.. and i always take him back.. he only apprectaites me more when im wit him.. he takes me for granted.. and its like he isnt even sorry for what he does. im worried and confused. i want to move on but i cant find anyone and i cant get over him. im so hurt and lost. i need so much advice. i dont even go out on the weekends and he does.. and i dont even know what he does. i have a broken heart, ive given him everything i had and its like it wasnt enough.. :''/ help me please. im begging you
2007-09-28 20:51:18 · 7 answers · asked by allie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are lots more fish in the sea. The real question remains; why do you keep letting him back into your life? Is there a hidden meaning involved here? Like you feel so low in self esteem that you feel you need the continual punishment? If so, why not find out what the real problem is and do something to correct it. So you don't continue life, being miserable all the time.
It is pretty routine to find someone in your state of mind to have some hidden emotion tucked away in your memory bank. Something hidden even from you. Something from many years ago. Something that involved a pretty severe emotional shock to you.. It got buried into the deeper recesses of the mind and does have some influence on the choices you make in life.
2007-09-28 21:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need anyone else to move on with. You don't sound like you are very happy with yourself, so you take him back in spite of yourself. You know you deserve better, I'm not telling you anything new. You just need to start taking a good look at yourself and figuring out why you think you need a man to validate you. I personally think you need to take some time to yourself and find out who you are and all the wonderful thing that make you "you". Once you do, you will become more confident, more fun to be around, and more attractive overall. A genuine smile is your best accessory, but it's hard to wear if you keep allowing him to hurt you. Cut him loose and enjoy you for a change.
2007-09-28 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sincere Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a pill, you ask for more crap, then you get more crap. If you can't move on then at least stop playing the victium! Take control of your mind, your life. It gets old, all the crap, you burn out eventually if he hasn't already grazed on to a new girls pasture. Good grief, choose a christian guy, and you should be involved with a church and its youth programs. I say this because its ignorance of a sinful situation that got you wear you are.
2007-09-28 21:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are infirm in ur decisions and approach. One has to decide how they want to live & progress or make alternative decisions. Dualities must be resolved at the earliest.
2007-09-28 21:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by sureshcm m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though your heart wants to take him back, just force yourself to say no. he's defiantely not worth the trouble. you only think he is the only one for you because you keep on holding on. you have to move on, you deserve better =)
2007-09-28 21:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a barrel roll!
2007-09-28 20:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HIS BUTT!!!!!! he is a loser
2007-09-28 20:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by rocket9244 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋