yet always broke and picks fights over nothing...Second part of the story...He works in construction with mostly men...However three of the employees are female secretaries and one of them is being really inapropriately flirtatious with him...On his myspace a week after we broke up the first time she put a comment on his myspace, it went as follows, "How's my favorite technican..hehe...xoxo (the hehe and xoxo in my mind put this into the innapropriate territory..i was nauseated)...She is a swinger...It says so on her myspace page "Electric Ladyland" is her screename...eww...
Also last message she sent him was an email (he must've sent her one first saying he's considering moving moving (he says that he and she don't even talk outside of work...HA!)...Anyway she sent him an email back suggesting he move closer to her in MD. He doesn't know I read it...If it were innocent he would not have deleted it right?
2007-09-28 21:09:53 · 12 answers · asked by babebear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look no further, you`ve seen all you need to and your suspicions were correct. Don`t waste another day on this loser!
2007-09-29 01:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by MISTY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My, My, Babebear, I hate to tell you this, But,... If he is cheating on you, you would be MUCH better off in the long run to just ASK HIM !, and, if he is, don't uncork!. The sooner that you learn to NOT be jealous, the sooner that you may find your dream life mate, lover, or, what you need for a happy life. Jealousy and fighting doesn't make true love. It took me alot of tears, fears, and years, (not to mention 2 failed marriages) to realize how simple and enlightening a trusting, and happy relationship can be. LIFE IS MUCH TO BRIEF TO KEEP YOUR HAPPINESS ON HOLD ! ...maybe it comes with maturity----->and I don't mean that to be a put down in any way. Good Luck and Be True To Yourself ! <----that's most important, sincerely
2007-09-28 21:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by sha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that there is something to be suspisious about there. I would just talk to him about it or leave him. Theres no point having stress in your life by trying to catch him.
2007-09-28 21:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by emesumau 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl, the whole thing's over. Move on. You don't have time to pick the flecks of manure out of this souffle. He's done.
2007-09-28 21:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Vincent Van Jessup 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
he's full of cr@p. the "xoxo" IS inappropriate. There's something to it. Have his s*** packed and ready to move. Help him move just a little bit faster.
2007-09-28 21:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ithink your suspicions are right...he's hiding something from you...put your foot down and talk to him...or just give him an ultimatum...good luck
2007-09-28 21:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Juliet 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are looking for an excuse to walk out and divorce. All you want is someone to confirm what your are saying might be happening but how is anyone on here going to be able to do that?
So he deleted emails - wow - since the vast majority of people do that in order to make their in box manageable I suppose you think everyone should get divorced!!!!
I doubt that he is having an affair but It is painfully apparent that you seem bent on another break up and that your behaviours can only drive him away and possibly into the arms of another.
The way you keep a man is to build your relationship with him, talk together and strive to get on!!!!!!
2007-09-28 21:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
yes, he is being unfaithful. Showing you no respect. I know its hard to hear but i.ve been there. TALK TO HIM ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, IF HIS ATTITUDE STAYS THE SAME, MOVE ON.
2007-09-29 00:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by kathleenwanabee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting and cheating are two different things.
I would say he is probably just flirting - but you should keep your eyes open and see if anything suspicious happens.
2007-09-28 21:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ben O 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Time to move on to something(one) better....
2007-09-28 21:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by Linni 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋