Is it weird that I think about ***** all the time?

Question

QUESTION: Is there something wrong with me?

Before I give the gory details I'd like to establish some premises:

i) I'm not gay, because I feel no attraction to males or have any desire to have sex with guys.
ii)I'm a male. (I suppose if i) holds then ii) is a corollary.
iii) I don't have a big Peter myself. It's actually average if not smaller than average. (approx. 4.5 inches when erect.) Not big I know.

Here's the thing. I think about c0cks all the time and much like the character in the movie Superbad I used to (and still do when the mood strikes) draw pictures of *****. Also I usually google pictures of Peter North and other male porn stars all the time just to admire their monster Tools.

I guess I should've added this. I think about nailing chicks all the time. I just wish sometimes I had a bigger Peter. I don't if that alone though (the fact that my ramrod is not above average) is the sole reason why I obsess about *****.

Answer 1

I think you have had a repressed childhood in that you were not allowed to see enough penises whiel you were growing up. Whiel it is impossible to say why this occurred, we do know it has led you to an excessive obsessive with the male penis. And although it is not actually a gay obsession in your situation, it might be considered one by those who do not understand yoru problem. Fact is there is only one cure. You need to get out more to places wher eyou can observe penises in all their splendor and thus rid yoruself of the deprivations of your childhood.

All that aside, no, it is not weird at all. Most every guy is curious about penises and in the absence of all the stupid societal stigma imposed about the viewing of penises, every guy woudl openly look at other guys to see how big he is, whether he is circumcised or not, how hairy he is, etc. Curiousity about the male genitals is quite normal. And it matters not if you are gay or straight. So, feel free to observe, draw, etc. And maybe you should spend more time in locker rooms or take an art class specialixing in male nudes or even study photography and explore the possibilities of doing nude male photo shoots. However in whatever manner you pursue your interest in male genitals, try not to stare; doing so is not polite.

Answer 2

I notice you said your not gay and feel no attraction to males or have any desire to have sex with guys. But you did not say you are attracted to women or if you ever had sex with a woman. If all you think about is dick and different sizes of other man, sounds like you are hiding from your own self. You know the saying (A rose by any other name is still a rose).

Answer 3

It's pretty common for guys to compare penis sizes. That is what your doing. No, nothing is wrong with you. It's a phase you'll grow out of. Though, if your watching gay porn just to get a glimpse of a guys penis or start having fantasies about sucking a guy with a really big penis off. Then you might be bi. I'm just saying if you do those last two things I just mentioned...just consider that you might be gay....or at least experimental.

Answer 4

I think about pussy all the time, I'm in my 40's and all I think about is nailing my wife. My dick is aveage, could be above if it wasn't shaped like a moon. but I don't worry about it because I prefer eating pussy and pleasing my wife in a way that works. Find something that works for you and run with it.
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Answer 5

It seems that you are concerned with this behavior and that's why you're asking here. Persistent unwanted sexual thoughts can be a symptom of some mental health problems, such as obsessive-compulsive disorder. Why not have yourself evaluated by a mental health professional?

Answer 6

if you are attracted to women and never to a man then you cant be gay. i think its a lack of self confidence. your unhappy with your size so your fascinated by other ones.

learn to be happy with what you got and dont you read? its not the size of your tool but how you use it. get some self esteem and chill out

Answer 7

yeah, sounds a little odd... considering you giving us your details it seems you have issues with yourself since your average... perhaps you should focus on carrot cake or try doodling pictures of opossums. that is, Unless you think you can make a living professionally drawing penis'-- if so I'd run with that idea.
Good luck

Answer 8

It sounds like you have a certain fondness for the object.

Are you particularly sexual? Perhaps that has something to do with it.

Answer 9

How ocme you can say the word ***** but Q & A woundn't let me say schlong

Answer 10

I have the same issue, but i am a gay, so it doesn't bother me.