Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

My boyfriend turns off his phone for days on end without telling me that he's going to do it, or make spur of the moment weekend trips without informing me or (worse) inviting me. Since Wednesday, he has been incommunicado (its Sunday night). I would have been fine if he'd just sent me an email or text saying "My cell phone will be switched off for the next few days, I need to get into my book/some space. Please don't worry." Six seconds of his life, vs. hours of mine lost in worry

I needed him today when I got stranded somewhere, and couldn't get in touch. Last night he sent me a paultry text (after three days of trying to get in touch) to say he was "all right". I wasn't alright today, when I needed him. I'm at my wits end with this behaviour. I find it so offensive: he thinks I overreact. My worry is that he knows how much it upsets me and does it anyway. I think I should walk, even though I love him. Would that be an emotional overreaction?

2007-09-30 02:35:48 · 15 answers · asked by TryingHard 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 02:34:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him why and he said for his own sick enjoyment. We had sex, but I felt weird with the camera there. He told me to ignore it. I told him it better not go up on the internet. He promised it wouldnt.

Why did he tape me!?

2007-09-30 02:31:25 · 21 answers · asked by clarissa 1 in Singles & Dating

I love haning out with my friend sam. Bur her boyfriend always tags along where ever we go. He asks me and I say, no I just want some alone time with sam this time. But then I talk to sam and she promises to hang with me ... well yesterday they walked up to my house and we walked around, got something to eat, and then went to Sam's house.

Her boyfriend kept touching her, and kissing her, and flirting with her.
I mean, I know that they are dating, and they love each other, but how do I tell them that I hate being around them when they do that?

2007-09-30 02:25:56 · 4 answers · asked by clarissa 1 in Friends

My boyfriend doesn't like that I have guy friends, but he has girl friends. Last night he was supposed to come over but he canceled on me, and I ended up having a bunch of friends over and a lot of them crashed here. Well when we went out to get food and drinks and stuff we stopped by slackers where he worked and I had one of my best guy friends Keenan with me and my sister Brittany, and then at 2:00am he's like. "can I see you" in a text message, and I pull a line that he always gives me "it's up to you" well then he's like "**** that" and starts going on about how I'm cheating on him, and he won't listen to anything I say, and then he's drunk and driving to Alabama and I don't know why. He wouldn't answer his phone only text and now he isn't even doing that. What do I do? I love him so much. How can I get him to stay with me? Please help me!

2007-09-30 02:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who I use to like in middle school and I want to say it to him when i visit my old school(i moved to a new school) but that could ruin our relationship.What should I do?

2007-09-30 02:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by Sakura Sohma 2 in Singles & Dating

I would still like a dress something simple maybe a halterneck long dress but what colours i dont want to look slutty by going for red, but i cant wear white or ivory again. I am not keen on a suit. Its my fiancee first wedding/marriage and has always pictured his bride in a dress of some sort HELP

2007-09-30 02:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by sexiebum 5 in Weddings

i got mad at her cuz she threw out a pair my sneakers that i paid $300 for...im a sneaker collector so of course i got pissed off...then she got mad cuz i was trying to watch the football game and she brung her stupid little friends over...so i turned the volume on the tv up after i asked them if they could hush..now she said "we dont know how to communicate" so we need to talk more often...now she always wants to talk to me and i dont really like talking that much..there are times when i just wanna be left alone...like this morning...i was eating breakfast in front of the tv and then she just sat down and started talking to me...and she went on and on about what her friends were talking about last night...it was really hard trying not to turn the volume on the tv up again...

anyways...i just wanna know why does she always wanna talk..what should i do??

2007-09-30 02:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 02:10:27 · 27 answers · asked by digibin2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read a book about teasing someone is related to jealousy about him or her. Can this be true? Can someone be jealous for just something you do best?

2007-09-30 02:10:06 · 8 answers · asked by MHal Ed 2 in Friends

I'm almost 19. I had sex with a 47 year old man that I dont even know. I met him at my friends party a couple weeks ago. I loved having sex with him. I love giving oral. I loved the sensation of the pressure. I want to do it again. I liked it with older men. What do you guys think?

2007-09-30 02:08:44 · 36 answers · asked by clarissa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my mom and dad gave up smoking about 2 years ago, but i have just found out that my dad is still smoking ( my mom doesen'e know ). My mom hates liars, REALLY hates liars, should i tell my mom about my dad or leave it alone?

2007-09-30 02:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 in Family

My husband and I are renewing our vows after 20 years of marriage. We are planning a tropical theme, casual, and the ceremony will be at our home with just family and a few close friends. My husband is wearing a white silk shirt and khaki pants (think beach wedding), and I purchased a white satin wedding dress at a great price and remade it. I took all the tulle and stuff out from underneath, cut off the train and took out a ton of fabric from the sides so that it is still full, but not overwhelming. The dress has beading only around the neckline and straps and at the waist - no lace. Now I am reading that wearing a white wedding dress to a vow renewal is considered "tacky". I kind of did this because I am the original "jeans and t-shirt" type and I wanted to wow my husband (we actually got married the first time in jeans with no family present). I don't want to look stupid or like I am trying to be something I'm not, just wanted a fun day. Should I get something else to wear?

2007-09-30 01:55:45 · 13 answers · asked by y2-y1 5 in Weddings

Once men realize that I've got an opinion they are totally not interested..its like they think all women are supose to just smile, nod and agree..what the hell...I personally dont wanna date a doorman, so why to most guys...And why are they in control and f-in way?!

2007-09-30 01:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

I have one class with this guy and i really like him, we talk all the time and he can never stop looking at me, it's a film class so we sit in the dark theatre for an hour and a half, every minute or so i see him looking over at me. we sit with two seats in between us. i really want to find out if he's interested in me HELP PLEASE!?!?!

2007-09-30 01:44:36 · 4 answers · asked by Cadi C 2 in Singles & Dating

For x number of years you have lived quite happily as Harry Potter for example. Then, thanks to JK Rowling has your life been turned upside down? Is your name David Beckham, Jonny Wilkinson, or worse, Ian Huntley, Fred West etc. Your stories please.

2007-09-30 01:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by Barry K 5 in Family

when i say 'cheat' i mean elevated to championship status to the point that in his school's newsletter (he's a coach) they refer him as 'an expert with the 'amazons' (a woman's team). everybody knows and he is quite open and proud about it and they both act like nothing is going on. they have a small child and he was cheating before marriage/after marriage/ while pregnancy/ after etc. of course nobody tells her nothing and they seem to hide this from each other and maintain an outgoing social life (under 40 both).
of course it's not my business to tell her... but i just don't get it. i mean he has hit me, my sister, every girl i know. what is the deal with that? you can maintain a marriage just by looking the other way? I just don't get. and it's not like she needs him financially.
so i suppose the key to a working marriage is looking the other way? what sick thing is going on there? are there couples like that nowadays?

2007-09-30 01:15:07 · 21 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

would you actually kiss a girl if you didn´t have any feelings for her? I mean if you didn´t fancy her,, you wouldn´t kiss her, surely??

2007-09-30 01:14:25 · 24 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 01:12:07 · 8 answers · asked by Georgia B 1 in Singles & Dating

The sweet type.
The maternal type.
The raw sexual type.
The shy, quiet type.
The crazy kind (just joking).


No bad comments please.

2007-09-30 01:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sweet
Cute
Cuddly
Mean
Lazy
Distant
Affectionate

Or your own word...

But just know that if you leave a bad comment, I'm not going to believe you at all, so it's no use. Just cool people please. I want to know what feeling I bring to a woman by my look. Do I bring a fuzzy feeling, nauseating (lol), maternal, etc. What should I expect from women who actually like me? I mean, if they like me because they feel a certain way about me due to my appearance, then I should know what kind of women are attracted to me. Hmmm...I think I'll ask exactly that in another question. Anyway...

2007-09-30 01:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me frnds who is most important in your life ur parents, ur teachers, ur friends or just urself and no one else

2007-09-30 01:01:21 · 27 answers · asked by Meghana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been tograther four 4 n half years he says he wans kids but i would like to b engaged or marred b4 we do?!?!?!? help

2007-09-30 00:42:14 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

guy than me). Is it natural?

2007-09-30 00:26:53 · 11 answers · asked by Like 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had to move back home after university because I'm broke and trying to find a job but my parents are both very abusive towards me. They think giving me a roof over my head gives them free rein to say what they like and do what they like towards me, verbally or physically, especially when they're drunk (they both have drinking problems). Last night was the worst, they both were drinking and woke me up at 3am to have a go at me for no reason apart from they were drunk. I can't afford to get a place of my own yet but they are both really upsetting me and causing a lot of stress. I have no family or friends in the area I can go to. Do I bite my tongue till I can afford to leave or do I get out now? Any suggestions much appreciated, I'm at my wits end and I don't know what to do.

2007-09-30 00:26:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was walking to my locker with my group of friends and I saw him beside me so I said hi, he said hi back and smiled. But then I was talking to another guy at the time and he walked past me alone and didnt bother talking to me at all. Is this an ego thing or he just doesnt like me? We sit in same lunch tables from time and time and when we talk he is quiet friendly always laughing and smiling and talking. But he only ask questions about me from time to time. My friend thinks all guys have ego no matter what and our chemistry (although started out strong) needs to be built slowly over time... I'm being patient here... making everything casual. Am I doing this right?

2007-09-30 00:00:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating