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i got mad at her cuz she threw out a pair my sneakers that i paid $300 for...im a sneaker collector so of course i got pissed off...then she got mad cuz i was trying to watch the football game and she brung her stupid little friends over...so i turned the volume on the tv up after i asked them if they could hush..now she said "we dont know how to communicate" so we need to talk more often...now she always wants to talk to me and i dont really like talking that much..there are times when i just wanna be left alone...like this morning...i was eating breakfast in front of the tv and then she just sat down and started talking to me...and she went on and on about what her friends were talking about last night...it was really hard trying not to turn the volume on the tv up again...

anyways...i just wanna know why does she always wanna talk..what should i do??

2007-09-30 02:12:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

*LOL*

I'm one of those guys who often likes to be alone too, especially when watching a game at home. And I don't like to talk much either.

Actually, it is important to talk to your girlfriend. Communication is essential. When she wants to talk at a time that is slightly inconvenient, just go ahead and talk. And if she wants to ramble, just listen, or pretend that you are.

When you're trying to watch "The Game of the Year" and she wants to talk, just tactfully ask her if you can talk after the game. When you do this, the right tone of voice and attitude will keep her from getting upset.

Just make sure there is a good balance between your alone time and talk time with your girl, even if you don't like talking.

2007-09-30 02:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0 0

What do they say? Females say like 10000 words a day to our 3000? Or something like that... Don't tune them out. Learn how to better communicate so you can steer the convo's to a productive nature. However since she is going to be chatty remember likes it that you listen - and likes when you listen. Even if it is the most benign blather you've ever heard....

Make sure you interrupt occasionally with a flirt here and there to catch her off guard. Or you will be spending a lot of time in the future watching TV by yourself.

2007-09-30 02:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Delay 5 · 0 0

She's getting severe? Off what? You havn't made a lot experience. yet besides, in case you're girlfriends smoking hashish, that must be the reason that she gets bright and each so often gruesome objectives. it is not continually an component consequence, yet for some human beings that is.

2016-10-20 08:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by thibaud 4 · 0 0

in a relationship it is 50/50 and the most importiant thing in one is COMUNICATION cause if u dont talk how will the other one know what the other one wants i get mad at my man too mainly because its frustrating that we dont communicate and messages get miss understood and it causes an arguement . but i do agree there should be quiet time and both shold feel comfortable doing so but try to understand that she loves u and wants to be with u she just might be frustrated that u wont talk to her .
talk to her be open with your feelings honesty is the best policy

2007-09-30 02:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by kat1980au 2 · 0 0

She wants to talk a lot for the same reason you want to watch tv a lot. Remember if it gets too bad, you can always watch tv in a bar. but then again, she can get what she wants down there in that same bar.

2007-09-30 02:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0 0

Are you sure you still love her? Maybe just tell her that you need your space sometimes. If she doesn;t get the point, maybe you guys aren't meant to be together.
She seems to need someone who wants to pay attention to her 24/7 and you seem to need someone who want to be with you but also has their own thing goin on.
Have a talk to her, but mayb it's time to call it quits.

2007-09-30 02:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by jeska102 1 · 0 0

there 's something she wanted to talk with you, it's either a step up in your relationship, or just at least let her feel that she's a real important to you,as you how important to her, let her feel the sense of her belonging , come on , spend more time with her than you spends more time of yourself.

2007-10-04 02:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

lol brilliant mate,well its nice if a girl always wants to talk to u and to be honest shes looking for more attention obviously ,if u loose her you will regret it but obviously you want to have some space she should be able to recognize that.

2007-09-30 02:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 0 0

Well if you would talk to her maybe you could tell her that that is bugging you and maybe she wouldn't talk so much. Just try talking to her and then maybe it will be all better.

2007-09-30 02:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by horscraz15 2 · 0 0

Oh pipe down. What's the problem with that?

2007-09-30 02:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by Legolas 2 · 2 0

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