Who is important?

Question

tell me frnds who is most important in your life ur parents, ur teachers, ur friends or just urself and no one else

Answer 1

who is important depends from person to person....parents are pre-set or i can pre-assigned to us by god...frendz are wat we chose in our life and i feeel mother plays a very important role in anyone's life and it wud be the same in ur life too...she was the one who was carrying u for 9 months inspite of all the odds in life she might have had sleepless nites just to make u sleep peacefully....she might have had long days just to make ur days beautiful.....she might have made u sleep on the dry part of bedsheet wen u might have made the complete bedsheet toiled.....trust me wat plays an important role in ur life wud be ur choice but please give ur mother the best blessed place u will never find a replacement ...ask them who dont have one

Answer 2

There are two ways to look at your question. If you are talking about relationships in the family, each one is as important as the other, and none can be rated an inferior relationship. Though, after marriage, the spouse and children appear to be more important than others, but it is really not so always. After all relationship is in other way, is nothing but dependency or security etc., therefore in nucleus families, the relationships with grown up brothers, sisters, parents, grand-parents, uncles etc do not find place, but it does matter, in terms of emotional needs and for separate occasions in life. If you look the question spiritually, the only reliable dependent who is our father, mother, friend, guide, teacher, xavier etc is non else than the God, who is and shall be important Always.

Answer 3

Where does the question rose from? It is you that the question rose from. So it is you who is asking for an answer.. You are waiting for the answer.... So naturally you are important.

Your parents, your teachers, your friends are all related to you. So you are the centre. And the centre is the most important point in a circle. So you are important.

Your parents gave you birth. You should be grateful to your parents. The teachers gave you knowledge, they also owe your gratefulness. Your friends are the ones who helped you in need, so they equally owe your gratitude.

In a family, the child is the most important being, he needs all the attention, as long he is not grown up enough to look after himself. Child is the centre of everybody's attention in any family.

If you can look after yourself, you are no more a child. But you are not yet fully grown up; you need help from parents, you need help from teachers, you need help from your friends, throughout you may need their help... so you are still a child... and being a child you become important.... all others are helpful to you. The only difference is that you are a grown-up child who has to look after himself with help from others. When you were a child, others used to look after you, as you couldn't help yourself. In either case, you are more important; because you are receiving help and the one who receives help is the centre of all concern.

For you, you are important. For me, I am important.

However, in love, the other is important. The beloved is important. The other exists in you. You are a nobody in love. The beloved is everything and you are nothing. This is the first phase of love.

Without love, every person is a world unto himself. When two persons are in love, their worlds overlap, their boundaries overlap, and as love deepens their centres move closer. And when they are totally lost in each other, that is when their centres meet and coincide, they are not two persons, but one person living in two different bodies. In such a scenairo, both lose their identities and become unimportant, only love is important then. Persons are not important in love. Love takes the centrestage and obviously then love is important.

So you see, when you are an ordinary worldly being, 'you' are important. If you are just in love, the beloved is important. If you are ripened in love, neither the lover nor the beloved is important, but love becomes important.

There is yet a higher love, we are not yet mature in ordinary love, so let us not talk about the highest love which is divine love, which is all the more important, which holds the universe together and to which we owe our very existence.

Answer 4

Everyone who enters in ur life has different important.You cannot compare any1 with others. If you try to compare it will pain you hence, accept each relation in ur life differently. However, if you look at our culture, Parents, teachers, childrens all are Parmaatmas.

Answer 5

First and foremost -you parents who gave you birth-then the teachers -who taught you the nuiances of life and last but not the least- your friends-who gave you a meaning to your life and by standing on your side in hours of need.

Answer 6

Human being itself is very selfish in nature,importance is decided as per his/her requirement in life. You are related to your parents because you need them in your younger days,you require teachers in your school days,teachers require the students for the salary,you require friends to hang around for different requirements.Thus decide the importance as per you requirement.

Answer 7

All are important but as far as most important is concerned its myself because I'm the one to choose what, why and when to give importance.

Answer 8

Family comes first then Friends

Answer 9

till u get some one special in u r life the whole turbulence of life is take none other then u r parents, u r up & downs r of them they r the pillar of your career bcoz ........... it happens only in India...... when some one special comes to u r life the much more imp should be given to them with out forgetting the root of u rs .......

Answer 10

1st u r important then yr parents, teachers & finally friends & relatives