Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

and baby it's cold outside!

what song is stuck in your head?

2007-09-30 12:31:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've seen so many people not know how to handle this time in a wedding. does the bride and groom immediately line up for the receiving line? or do they run into the wedding car and honk the horn all over town? or do they go for photos, or what and when exactly do we throw the bird seed, or blow bubbles if they beat us out of the chapel? i never did 'get it'.

2007-09-30 12:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We are in the process of divorce. He's been a real jerk. But sees no reason to get out. He also recently stated that he's so broke he will probably have to stay in (my house I rent from my mom) the house even after the divorce is final. This is making me feel schizophrenic. I don't know what to do ....anyone ever had a weird arrangement ??? I want him GONE NOW!!!!!

2007-09-30 12:29:58 · 21 answers · asked by Imlilyroses 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so there are these two guys and they both like me and i really like both of them. And everyone has been telling me to pick one...but I don't know which one....I can't really think of anything bad about either one except one is three years younger than me.

Guy A:
16
drives
works
likes metal
HOT
Smart
Sweet

Guy B:
13
plays guitar
likes metal
HOT
Sweet
smart
works with animals




GRRR


Frustrating much?
YEAH

2007-09-30 12:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. What bothers you most about girls? I need lots of answers!!!!

2. What attracts you to a girl?

3. What about a girl would make you pick her as a girlfriend and not want sex out of her?

2007-09-30 12:27:27 · 18 answers · asked by crazy red head 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 12:27:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like, the guys i like are never the popular, perfect jocks.
like my friends will be "omg! look at that ah-mazing guy!" i'll turn and it wil be someone practically out of a magazine, but i just dont see it.

i just like normal guys. like, you dont look at them and go "OMG!"

is anyone else like this?

2007-09-30 12:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married for 10 years to my ex husband and we have a daughter. I divorced him b/c he began cheating on me with his b/f's wife and would not leave her alone. Its been 10 years and he's still with her. I have since remarried and love my husband very much. I've dreamt about them at least 4 nights a week since we divorced and the dreams get more weird as the years go by. To make things worse, they are currently building a house in the town where I live - 10 mins away. They did live about 45 mins away.

Can someone please help me figure out why I keep dreaming about them. I don't think about them while I'm awake. I just want the dreams to stop.

2007-09-30 12:25:32 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I invited everyone to our wedding and on the invatation if they didn't have kids or a husband we put: "You may bring a date if you wish". Then we put on the response card "Date's Name'" (For the seating) and then a space for your date's name.

We have recieved 5 response cards back so far, 3 of which are the dates optional and 2 of them put three or four names on the line for "Date's Name"! We just ment one person!

How do we tell theese people we only wanted them to bring one person, but still be nice?

2007-09-30 12:08:20 · 20 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Weddings

I have a cute next door neighbor named Cameron. I'm 13 and so is he, and we've introduced ourselves, so we've actually really only talked once. He's not out too often and when he is, I make sure I'm out there too, but I think he's shy. He never says hi to me and I'm way too shy! How can I talk to him? If I can just get his screen name it would be easier. Plus I have a REALLY big crush on him and I know he likes me because I heard his brother say to him the other night, "Oh, Mary, Mary, Mary!" (Which is my name by the way.) :) Please help!

2007-09-30 12:07:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because we found out i was prego so his parents kinda pressured "us" to get married so the baby wouldnt be born out of wedlock. anyways so we got married about a month after finding out about the baby. at this point he was still cought in partying and doing his own thing. i knew he liked to drink alot and smoke weed. and use cocaine .which i really hate. so i told him he needed to quit doing drugs or i'd leave so he said ok. but little did i know that he was hiding it everywhere in our apt so i wouldnt find it. which i found like 3 times and each time left for a short period of time . i'm so fed up with it i'm going crazy. but i dont want 2 leave beacuse i want him to be a father 2 my son and i dont want my son 2 be part of a broken family. also he swears up and down that ever since my son has been born he NO longer uses cocaine. but i cant trust him so i accuse him. and then we end up fighting and its just getting old. i dont know what to do please help with ur opinons

2007-09-30 11:58:03 · 19 answers · asked by SSALAZAR 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband likes to hang with his work buddy and we've visited over their house several times this past year. I just find his wife terribly boring with no interests. She yells at her 4 kids a lot and her husband has taught them curse words. When she is away from the kids she wants to get "hammered" which I don't enjoy or she wants to go out to the bars. Should I just avoid going with him over there or should ask that he distance himself from them too? It seems like if he is going to be friends with him, I get unavoidable invitations over to their birthday parties and cookouts. I just don't enjoy staying over there till midnight, the conversations are so dull and I don't approve of how they raise their kids. What do I do?

2007-09-30 11:56:43 · 4 answers · asked by ashanabu 3 in Friends

an old girlfriend hugs me to congratulate me by my wedding and my girlfriend cancelled the wedding without a reason. what I can do? she does not want to listen to me. Why she don't trust in me?. I agree answers in english, french and spanish

2007-09-30 11:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by MawsCM 2 in Weddings

2007-09-30 11:55:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy at school and i like him but he popular like me. But he is mean to me, but at other times he is the sweetest guy on earth.

2007-09-30 11:49:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he spends most of his money on booze and doesnt contribute financially. even HIS friends tell me i can do much better. my family say he's taking advantage. i enjoy being with him, we get on really well. i am starting to wonder if i am missing out on something better /less stressful. when do you decide enough's enough? how will iknow if i can "do better" if i am stuck with someone who doesnt deserve me?

2007-09-30 11:48:03 · 20 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious. I think for my family of 7 I spend about £180 a week

2007-09-30 11:44:00 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Nicole ♥ 3 in Family

2007-09-30 11:40:38 · 49 answers · asked by jessie2cool_4 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

that you know they like you and will one day be all about you and do anything they can to be around you and the next day be like ok whatever if your around or not and then go back to clingy love sick puppy again the next?!? i dont get guys.....

2007-09-30 11:29:03 · 9 answers · asked by vikkish1087 2 in Singles & Dating

after marry with him you know that your husband is physically unfit so what u will do with him

2007-09-30 11:27:05 · 13 answers · asked by anni 1 in Weddings

We dated about 4 years before marriage and have been married for 6 years. About 4 years ago she told me she (out of the blue) wanted to start seeing other people cuz she really didnt want to get married at the time we did. She has recently went out of town on th weekend of our anniversary and had sex with someone else, and has also told me that in the beginning part of her even being with me, was to just get out of her moms house.

I feel so stupid and used and naive

2007-09-30 11:24:07 · 26 answers · asked by Flavor Flav 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 22 year old male that attends college. I have never had a girlfriend. I'm not the most attractive guy. There were many women my age that I was attracted to but they all turned me down for various reasons. After a while I became tired of the mind games and drama. Now I'm only interested in women who are at least 30. I know this is abnormal but I can't help it. Should I pursue older women or stick to getting rejected by women my age?

2007-09-30 11:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by Leonard W 6 in Singles & Dating

my dad does because he never stop talking about today with the credit cards thing and he never will drop it.my dad scares me alot because he get angry you never believe he gets angry so easy and blame it on me with his and his issue. i hate my dad and i can't miss my homework because i won't grad without it. i can't help getting angry i got this problem.my dad thinks is all about me but it is not about all of time.do you hate your dad as well as me.my dad is a wild beast on a loose. don't ever get my dad angry he'll get you angry so easy you would get ino lots of trouble.did this happen to your dad with these problem.

2007-09-30 11:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a man who walked out on three marriages, would only be seeking another woman for a nurse or her purse?

2007-09-30 11:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by Peace 3 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with the other guy and i think about the other guy alot so would somebody tell me what to do please

2007-09-30 11:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont talk like that but it really bugs me when they do. i just want to here ur opinion.

2007-09-30 11:09:06 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When i was 1 years old i was taken away from my mam and had to live with my aunty as i was a ward of court i love my mam very much but no one in my family will tell me why i was taken out of her care.
I have i asked the social services for my file to find out the truth do you think it is a good idea?

2007-09-30 11:08:43 · 10 answers · asked by Selina T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are going to get our marriage license this week and would like to be married asap....we live in NY and you have to wait 24 hrs to get married, do you have any idea how soon they will book a marriage to do there?

2007-09-30 11:04:06 · 7 answers · asked by chandralynn17 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of 18 years has been having an affair for the last 6 months. I tried to stay with her to work things out, but she has no intention of stopping seeing him. She says she loves me and doesn't want to live without me, but she can't cut him out of her life now. I moved out 6 weeks ago and she still seems to be holding on. So how long do I wait to pull the plug?

2007-09-30 11:03:14 · 10 answers · asked by Howlin M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

only speak to me and pay me a lot of attention when I'm wearing nice clothes.

I mean ! It's just so ... I'm not sure of the word but it upsets me. I'm almost 16 and whenever we have a non-uniform day at school and I wear something nice i get loads of guys who normally ignore me coming up and trying to speak to me.

It happens a lot. Why are guys so shallow ?

It upsets me that they're like this. Why are they so shallow ?

2007-09-30 11:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by X~xQuestions&&Answersx~X 3 in Singles & Dating