GUYS please answer!!?

Question

1. What bothers you most about girls? I need lots of answers!!!!

2. What attracts you to a girl?

3. What about a girl would make you pick her as a girlfriend and not want sex out of her?

Answer 1

1. Clingyness...2. Funny, personality, somewhat looks. 3. That pretty much depends on the guy

Answer 2

1. The part that mostly annoys me is if the girl was possessive or if she was very confrontational......Those are my 2 biggest pet peeves.

2. The things that attract me to a girl are if she was kind and generous, if she took care of herself, if there is a spark and chemistry between her and me, if she was honest, loyal, and trustworthy, and also very importantly someone who will be there for me and help me if I need it.

3. Same as #2......I think that ultimately sex just makes a good relationship better........but it's not the foundation.

Answer 3

1. There's quite a few, theres times where if I meet a girl and politely introduce myself, she might get shy and say very little In return that kinda makes me look awkward, then theres some who seem to obsesses about looks, and they put on ton loads of makeup, and eye crap where you can't even tell if thats their face. I don't really go for a girl who worries about every little detail. Other things are more simplicity (stuff that bores me) like girl talk about some movie star.

2. Things we have in common (sports is a bonus), their personality, and looks to a certain degree.

3. If we had a really tight friendship before our relationship.

Answer 4

1. nothing bothers me really unless its something that would get in the way of fun.

2. nice women, looks do matter but its not everything, a good personality is a must, and being able to have fun,.

3. a girl that I can trust and cuddle with and be able to watch her go to sleep and just get that fuzzy warm happy feeling whenever I'm around her or thinking about her...cheesy I know but love is cheesy lol

Answer 5

1. i would say that i hate it when they read too far into situations. like, if you forget to call a girl they might freak out and think you dont like them or you are cheating. stuff like that. and not every girl is like that- my gf is the best ever - and i love her so much - and she doesnt freak out over nothing. im just saying that is one of my pet peeves. another is gossip, like how most girls seem to believe crap lies about their bfs. that is dumb- you need to trust one another for a good relationship.

2. i think that whether or not she is pretty is the first thing we look for, then i try to get to know her and if she has a nice personality i normally get into one of those long-term relationships. if she is a snob or something, i dump her. i am always really nice about this even if she is a total b**** because i am just nice that way.

3. when you see a girl and she is dressed like a ho(not sexist, realist) i dont tend to feel attracted to her as i would to any other girl. that look tells me that she doesnt want any respect and thats the way i feel about hos. when a girl is nice-looking and is somewhat friendly, i am much more attracted to her than any ho because i feel that personality is just as important as looks when you are looking for a gf. i would prefer a nice smile to cleavage any day.

Answer 6

Bothers me most about girls?
Girls:
lack accountability
use emotion to make decisions
are always looking for someone better
DON'T SAY WHAT THEY MEAN!

Basically that they don't act like men.


Attraction:
figure
face
eyes
legs
rack
no kids
personality
not fake...in any way
respectable
intelligent
educated
ambitious
confident
honest
a little hard to get
The above list would make her gf material.


girls who are:
unloved by anyone
easy
sleazy
needy
jabber jaws
liers
stupid
unlucky
poor
dirty
overly flirty
old
way too hot
overly affectionate toward animals
gay
are not gf material.

Answer 7

well i don't like it when girls want to be rude... mainly to me when i'm just want to know how her day was. i want girl that is real with herself. way too clingy to the point that i can't go anywhere so that i can do what i need to do for a bit. i want a girl to believe me when i tell her something and not doubt me or be sarcastic bout what i say.

well i like girls to know they're sexy. a girl that knows what she wants and goes for it, also a girl that is comfortable talking about various subjects. someone that is supportive.

all the answers above and she has to not be a freak, only freaks get treated like one.

Answer 8

The things that bother me the most is chicks that think that they are very popular and very cute.
The thing that attracts me to girls is if the have a great funny and charming personality.
If you dress good and give a good smile then you good in my books.lol

Answer 9

Husband and wife are getting all snugly in bed. The passion is heating up.

But then the wife stops and says, " I don' t feel like it. I just want you to hold me."
The husband says " WHAT???"

The wife explains that he "must not be in tune with her emotional needs as a woman, you should love me for who i am, not for what i do in the bedroom".

The husband realizes that nothing is going to happen tonight and he might as well deal with it.

So the next day the husband takes her shopping at a big dept. store.
He walks around and had her try on three very expensive outfits. And then tells his wife, We 'll take all three of them. Then goes over and gets matching shoes worth $200 each. And then goes to the jewelry Dept. and gets a set of diamond earrings.

The wife is so excited (she thinks her husband has flipped out, but she does not care) . She goes for the tennis braceoet. The husband says " but you don 't even play tennis, but OK if you like it then lets get it. '

The wife is jumping up and down. So excited she cannot even believe what is going on. She says " I am ready to go, lets go to the cash register. " The husband says, " no -- no -- no, honey we ' re not going to buy all this stuff." The wife face goes blank.

" No honey - I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while. " Her face gets really red she is about to explode and then the husband says " You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a MAN!!!!!!!!

You should love me for who i am, and not for what i buy you.

Answer 10

I'm married for a long time but I do observe single people and it gives me gratitude that I don't have to go through that crap any more.

What bothers me most about women is when they tell you lots of hard and fast rules. I always tell women it's good for them to have boundaries and rules about what to look for in a guy. BUt you don't go around telling them to every guy you meet. They are to be kept private and adhered to. I don't want to hear how bad a guy is if he owns guns or watches football a lot or if he's too "masculine". It just sounds pretentious. These woman are misapplying the boundaries idea. They are verbalizing these things because their true intention is to change the guys. At least that's how it sounds to me. Don't go around trying to control and change a guy. If he's not for you then move on. If you think he is then date him and try to understand and know him when it comes to "negotiable" issues. Don't try to change him.

I'm most attracted by a combination of intelligence and independence along with just enough sweetness and nuturing. I want to feel like she's going to want me to love her and take care of her but I don't want to feel like she NEEDS it. And I want to feel like she's going to enjoy taking care of me.

The main reason I would not want to have sex in general is not about her at all. It's about my values system. I am a christian and I try to live a life of obedience and devotion. Part of that is no pre-marital sex. I wasn't that way before I got married though. So...

Let's put it this way. If I met a girl with whom I had no intentions of being in a serious relationship, but she looked "good enough" and I thought I had a shot, I'd take it. I never considered how it might be wrong to do that nor did I care how it might have affected her. I just wanted so satisfy my cravings. The easier the mark, the lower the bar on the looks part and the higher my tolerance for her personality.

I now know that if I really cared about her, if I felt an attraction deeper than physical, I would have no problems dating her wihtout sex. I'd try of course but I would not let that ruin it. If it was someone that made me all warm inside and I thought she might be the real thing, I'd sacrifice anything to be with her. I'd even deny my own sexual appetite. I would be thinking how amazing it would be when that day came and I'd fantasize about her constantly.

Wether a guy wants to have sex with a woman or not has little to do with her behavioral choices. It has everything to do with his values and how he TRULY feels about her. When it comes to someone with which you feel a connection, the thrill of the chase is enough sexual satisfaction for most guys.

Now the bad part. Some men have a hard time thinking past their sexual desire. They aren't really aware of much else when it comes to women. The younger they are, the more this is a problem.

The best way to navigate these difficult waters: Don't agree to sex with a man until he commits to you in marriage. They guys that are for real won't leave you over it.

If you have an insatiable desire yourself then I guess you have to find ways to deal with that. You might decide to have sex no matter what anyone says and I'm not into judging. But be very, very careful that you aren't using sex to trap a man. You may have to sleep with thousands before you find the right one. Not many women last that long and you won't know for sure anyway. The worst part is you will probably be in a sexual relationship that's doomed to fail because of his motives and Mr Right will pass by. You need to be availalbe for the right guys. The right guys won't make sex an absolute requirement.

Also, be very careful you aren't using sex to feel wanted, valued or attractive. Don't do it to make him happy. All these are opening yourself up to being taken advantage of, over, and over again.

Sorry to be so long-winded. Hope this helps.