2007-09-30 12:27:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No... I would think that sooner or later, it would hurt our marriage, even if it's what he wanted .... I'm all for fulfilling the man in my life's fantasies.. as long as I'm not afraid of it destroying what we have between us.
2007-09-30 12:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Hoestly, no dont do it. Yeah some couples like to spice up their sex life but there are other ways of doing it. Bringing another person into your marriage could mess everything up. If your marriage is great than leave it as is. And if you feel like spicing it up deifferently than let him know your ideas and take it from there. But do tell him how you feel about sleeping with someone else just to complete his fantasy. Let him know that he's the only person that you wanna be making love to him and i'm sure he'll understand and love you more for it...Take care
2007-09-30 12:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by NENA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would.... but you can bet that me and the hubby have sat down and talked about .. what the other is expecting out of that situation... hummm... to have me and my man and other women....WHEW !!! I do believe that everyone has to be on the so called "same page "... I find that the older I get.. the more I am actually going out and FULL filling some of my fantasies .... all in reason that is... another fantasy of mine was sleeping with another women.. and a couple of years ago... my wish was granted.... and it was AWESOME..would I do it again.. damn skippy I would.. but only if my man was comfortable with it... communication definitely plays a huge role when FULL filling some fantasies.. I cant speak for all women.. but I can say that just the thought of me and my man and another women together is such a turn on it is for me... I guess that is what makes it so sexciting for me is.. the communication that I have with my man... so be care full what you ask for !!!
2007-09-30 13:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heres another point of view to consider. When I was married I knew my ex was cheating. I figured I might as well get a piece of the action, so to speak. I knew that the marriage was dead so why not. She wouldn't admit to the obvious, so lets get serious or say good-bye. That's why she is the ex.
2007-09-30 13:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! great question and the response is great too. My girlfriend once proposed this to me but we never followed through with it. I do not regret the fact we didn't and its no big deal or loss. She was my life then and another woman was not needed in my life. Would I change that now if given the opportunity again? NO.
2007-09-30 13:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this person and do they love you???If so, they wouldn't ask... Marriage is sacred and when you bring someone else into your marriage, it is not longer a marriage, it is a relationship that won't ever be anything stronger. Tell them NO...and if he or she insists, get out and move on with you life.
2007-09-30 13:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but I would leave my spouse if he were dumb enough to ask me to sleep with someone else.
2007-09-30 12:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! By spouse I'm assuming you mean married...that's the whole point of a marriage, monogomy!
2007-09-30 12:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other person was Vanessa Williams, Tyra Banks or Halle Berry I would think about it, get my fantasies out of the way and then decline.
2007-09-30 12:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it is never a smart idea to bring another person into your marriage. Nothing ever good comes from it.
2007-09-30 12:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Dance 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
actually my ex spouse did ask me that. I refused.
2007-09-30 12:30:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋