i am in love with the other guy and i think about the other guy alot so would somebody tell me what to do please
2007-09-30 11:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by lahotshit26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh PLEASE. Not that old song and dance.
If you are so immature that you continue to see someone you are not in love with while you pine away for someone else, you don't deserve either one.
2007-09-30 11:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you are not in love with him, then why stay. You need that connection. New loves are always exciting. The "newness" doesn't stay forever. Take a step back from both relationships and see which one you can live without. Sometimes when we are with someone we love and a new interest comes along, it feels like a rush. Make sure that you are choosing the right one and not needlessly hurting the one you are with. Good luck!
2007-09-30 11:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you cant be in love with your bf cuz you keep pining for this other man you need to cut the other guy out completely because if you did not love your bf u would be with the other guy unless the feelings are so strong that it is time you leave the bf and be with the other and if he is not available to be with you dump your bf anyways and get things on track for yourself. you need to help yourself and be happy before anything else
2007-09-30 11:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh... i experience you. i'm there in the present day and that i do not see incorrect way out except breaking apart, regrettably. this is only that some issues, even nonetheless you try, is only not an same. you are able to attempt doing issues "out of the classic" yet how lengthy can that very last? I mean, in case you both do no longer make an attempt accepted to save your self faraway from the rutine, you're gonna fall decrease back into it. attempt to paintings on it... yet in case you word no effect, destroy out. i understand this is troublesome giving up after that a lot time (been there) yet finally this is going to likely be for the finest of both one of you.
2016-10-20 04:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple - you do not love your boyfriend. Break it off and see about being with this other guy that you are in love with.
When you are investing your emotional energy thinking and wishing for someone other than your partner you are already cheating, so let him go and move on.
2007-09-30 11:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your current boyfriend the hassle of you possibly cheating and go with what you heart tells you. You can't love one person and be in love with somebody else.
2007-09-30 11:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by kaybee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, you'll kick yourself later, especially if you two aren't working out now. Never live your life with regrets, who knows staying with him might be a regret. I'd say take a break and try out the other guy, it would probably be good to be honest withh him though.
2007-09-30 11:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by justin with a j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing the boy friend and find out who you are! You need to work on yourself and grow up a little. Live life on your own.
2007-09-30 11:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. Don't continue leading someone on. This includes you, too. Everyone will wind up getting hurt on some level.
2007-09-30 11:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by wlknwtr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. go with the other guy. be honest with ur b/f and let him move on without u
2007-09-30 15:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋