Family & Relationships - 30 September 2007

Okaii, i have a little brother whos 13, and a cousin whos 15, im 14. When i walked into my brothers room yesterday to get his washing, his computer was on, i was gonna turn it off until this chat message came up:
Hey cam watcha doing
nothing lacey what you doing
wanting to have s*e*x with you
okaii hold on come over

Lacey's my cousin name and cam's my lil brothers name, so i looked into the spare bedroom and i saw it, they were having it. Im really freaked out and dont know what to do, they didn't know i saw them. And i dont think that this is the first time either. :S

Please Help
Love
C

2007-09-30 15:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by ily BOOM. 3 in Family

A student that went to this school near mine passed away. He was in grade 8, I didn't say one word to this person but I feel depressed and I feel like I know him somehow.

I don't have a best friend or a friend I can express my feelings to at all. You see, he was supposed to go the same high school as me and I always wonder if he could be my best friend, my good friend. His best friend is currently in my French class and I want to get to know him. Me and him share the same dream..to be a professional basketball player.

Am I being stupid? Should I be even thinking that he could've been my best friend? What should I do?

2007-09-30 15:34:09 · 5 answers · asked by m21 2 in Friends

Does anyone have any ideas on what can be done instead of a guestbook for well wishes for the married couple?

2007-09-30 15:33:52 · 16 answers · asked by karma_k11 3 in Weddings

What do girls/women think of the way guys are so horny and notoriously enjoy looking at naked women (like in porn or at strip clubs)?

2007-09-30 15:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by egn18s 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

him. how do i stop thinking about a boy. how do i fall out of love?

2007-09-30 15:33:34 · 1 answers · asked by playglass 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am a field hockey player, its my life, and i would die with out it. but there is these girls that i fell like i cant stand up to. there pretty and funny. i really want revenge on this guy because he like broke my heart, and i feel like hes only noticing them and not me. HELP ME! i need ideas for revenge on this guy that number one will get him to notice me and number 2 get him to regret what he did to me, but i dont wanna get back together with him.

2007-09-30 15:33:04 · 1 answers · asked by cutiepie36 1 in Singles & Dating

I waited too long to make any moves with a girl that I was dating. I was so worried that I would mess someting up I didn't really make any moves and I ended up in the friend zone after a couple of dates. This was very unfortunate because she actually approached me and asked me on a date and she had been very interested in me. I have dated a couple of other girls since then and have learned a lot about dating. I know that if I could get her to go out on a date with me again that things would be different. If I were to get another shot I would definitely not make that mistake again. I went the entire summer without seeing her and I barely talk to her in school. Do you think we have been out of contact long enough for me to escape the friend zone or is a lost cause.

2007-09-30 15:32:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my so called "girlfriend" have been going out for 2 months and still havent meet eachother. Should i stay with her or break up?

2007-09-30 15:32:07 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Singles & Dating

8 yrs ago my stepfather would walk in on me in the shower, show porns on tv, etc.. my mother is a social worker and when i told her she left him,they have a daughter together who is now 12, no charges were filed bc not enough evidence so she says, i think she wanted the whole thing to just end and not go any more into it..denial i guess although she did leave him..My question is, even though nothing happened to him, now that my little sister is 12 I am worried he will do the same thing to her...Is there anything I can do now??I obviously dont have any evidence with it being 8 yrs ago, but I just wish I could do something now incase he would do this to someone else, they would already have a complaint.I dont think I could live with myself if he did this again and got away with it and I didnt do anything.. I dont know I am confused.

2007-09-30 15:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by missy 1 in Family

Meaning: When a friend or ANYone for that matter askes how many people I've slept with, should I chalk it down to something smaller like 8? In the sake of saving my reputation? Or is 14 OK do you think. (And for everyone that wants to say "SLUT" or any other slanderous comment, please...save it, I don't need your negativity and neither does this world.)

2007-09-30 15:30:37 · 32 answers · asked by Katherine H 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do to help from crying in front of him because it hurts me ever more when he says that to me because i have noone else but him and my 3 kids.

2007-09-30 15:30:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to spice up things again what can i do? any ideas? please help...

2007-09-30 15:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by pink! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my parents were gone this one weekend and my friends broke into my house when i was a penn state and had a party i didn't find out till after my parents got home. they blamed it all on me and now we don't talk....they want to get a relationship with me when i'm now moving out in less than 3 weeks. I'm adopted and they never really seemed to care. they only care about their blood kids and i get blamed for everything... i can't deal with this....i cry myself to sleep and my parents pretty much destroyed all my friendships by doing and saying stupid stuff to my friends and they treat me like shittt.......i was raped my 9th and 10th grade years of high school and they make fun of me for it....i really hurts and their is so much stuff i could say but i don't know what to do or where to stop....i need HELP

2007-09-30 15:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2 in Friends

Me= brown hair with blond highlights, hazle eyes, glasses, medium height
with
Kyle=dirty blond hair, hazle eyes, tall
or
Delean=brown hair, blue eyes, short

2007-09-30 15:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by hisbabygirl95 2 in Singles & Dating

i think im going to lose my virginity next weekend :o
he has a girlfriend right now
but when we were talking about this condom this guy gave me
he said
"use it on me"
i said
"no. thats called cheating"

{we dated about a week before he began dating her}

he said
"not if i dump her"

i said "okay then"

and he said "so its a date!"

i said "yep!"

he'ss all "next week"

i said "alright!"

and we hung up


is he serious about this?
if so..
help.
i dont know what to do! hha

2007-09-30 15:28:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 15:27:00 · 8 answers · asked by farmboy 1 in Family

i am sooooooooooooooooo happy cuz ! well lots

my bf asked me out! we went to the movies tonite and it was awesome!!!!!
but im sad cuz my step dad found a wet spot on the rug the smelled like cleaning stuff and he "assumed" it was me or my brother and thinks it was ME~ (i didnt do it!!!) and now im grounded for 2 weeks... no computer... no phone... no going any where!! = ,,( im so sad! yet very happy!!! hbu???

are you sad and happy??
or just sad??
or just happy??
and why?????????????

2007-09-30 15:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by Bethany 3 in Singles & Dating

Name some qualities about girls that drive you crazy (in the good way!).

Name some qualities about girls that drive you crazy (in the bad way!)

2007-09-30 15:26:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked this guy that i casually date if he wanted to hang out the other night. he texted me back saying that he was hanging out with a "dude" friend. i found it kinda weird that he just had to mention the gender...like i'd be mad if he just said friend or girl friend. does this mean he sees me more than someone casual? comments?

2007-09-30 15:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 8th grade, and I'm pretty academic. I'm a straight A student, follows the rules, blah blah blah. the whole she-bang. I made a policy for myself that I wouldn't go out with anyone till 10th grade. However, I find myself really liking a guy in my grade. It's the classic love/hate relationship. He's the guy that doesn't pay attention in class, sits in the back and makes sexual innuendo, and has a bunch of gfs just to make out with. I used to hate him a lot, but lately he seems to be really funny and what not. I don't know if he likes me or not, but there seems to be some kind of chemistry between us. I don't want to become one of his one day gfs, in fact I don't know whether I should just ignore him or not, and hope it'll blow over.
What the heck should I do?

2007-09-30 15:24:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i think my sisters will get me shaving stuff for my 16th birthday but what should i say, that i dont shave or just say i have once or twice or what, i feel embarrassed, my mum doesnt know nor does my dad, advice please

2007-09-30 15:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When i met my ex it was amazing i thought i would never love anyone more than him, well i lost my virginity to him and i got bonded with him even stronger. But some problems happened we kind of stopped talking to each other and we broke up. After that i tried dating new people but then my ex was upset about me leaving him he wanted to move to his dad in Ohio, i really did not want to loose him so i was crying and begging to him not to, he would even ignore me!! so i would always hang out with him and talk him out of it. Then bad things started happening, whoever i dated i would cheat on them with my ex! yes i do admit i love my ex yet i dont want to go out with him because im afraid what if my actual soulmate is out there! i dont wanna take a risk of getting back with him, finding the guy and dumping him AGAIN! and im tired of cheating on every1 with him and its wrong, but when i would date sum1 he would avoid me saying its for my own good, and that makes me run to him even more.

2007-09-30 15:24:00 · 2 answers · asked by pussicatpuk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 15:22:39 · 1 answers · asked by Marley W 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is with this one girl who hurts him (physically)and i dont like her at all. And ever since he has being going out with her he thinks that he is so cool and says stuff like "I really dont care dude" and he thinks he can run me and stuff and i dont know if i should still be his friend. Should i?

2007-09-30 15:21:58 · 6 answers · asked by J 2 in Friends

before. I am very shy but still. I notice all the girls my age have boyfriends. I rarely meet guys, Im always stuck on assholes who dont like me. I am not looking anymore, but Im so lonely. Not desperate

2007-09-30 15:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is from my other question. Just check out some of these ratings. I mostly used pics of guys, because I'm a guy, and because I know that women might get offended. Us guys can brush this off though right? Anyway... Look how some people are rated.

This guy is rated an 8.1 (yah right!!!)
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RURQE8K-VGL


This guy is 7.2
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RRAEBRS-PNR

7.7 -
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BLEQEQR-TDN


This woman is "9.3"
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=AZS8RUO-HNQ

But this sweetheart is 7.1
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=ASAZHUB-UST

This guy is a "9.9"
Compare with the first guys.
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RESQKZO-CCB

2007-09-30 15:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-30 15:18:42 · 20 answers · asked by Marley W 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay

this guy is my love. please watch him in his music video and tell me is he your type or not , am I silly or not. he is so talented and full of passion. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmLuT3aJw9E

2007-09-30 15:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by fedup 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a 13 year old that does not want to listen to reason. I've talked to her, begged with her, pleaded with her and nothing is working. She's negatively influencing her 3 year old sister and I need that to stop. What do I do. She's a compulsive liar and I can't deal with it any more. I don't want to send her away but that's the only thing that's left to do. Please help me with this because I really do love her and want to help her.

2007-09-30 15:16:15 · 13 answers · asked by KoKo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do girls get better than guys paul d in sneads ferry

2007-09-30 15:16:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating