I'm in 8th grade, and I'm pretty academic. I'm a straight A student, follows the rules, blah blah blah. the whole she-bang. I made a policy for myself that I wouldn't go out with anyone till 10th grade. However, I find myself really liking a guy in my grade. It's the classic love/hate relationship. He's the guy that doesn't pay attention in class, sits in the back and makes sexual innuendo, and has a bunch of gfs just to make out with. I used to hate him a lot, but lately he seems to be really funny and what not. I don't know if he likes me or not, but there seems to be some kind of chemistry between us. I don't want to become one of his one day gfs, in fact I don't know whether I should just ignore him or not, and hope it'll blow over.
What the heck should I do?
2007-09-30 15:24:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a straight A student
mustn't be very hard in school to get A's then as something must be wrong with you to even consider it
you will be a toy for him and end up with a broken heart
so see a doc and get you head checked b4 you go on a date with him
2007-10-08 02:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by zuppe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should ignore him..if u r doing good with school then u should keep urself on that track & not let any guy distract u. Specially if the guy seems to be a "ladies guy." If u end up getting ur heartbroken ur grades may suffer and it's just not worth it. Take it from me...wait until high school to get into a relationship that way u'll have ur head straight and focused..and since u are a straight A student I imagine college is going to be VERY important for u and the last thing u want is to start high school all sad because u were heart broken :/
2007-09-30 22:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my two cents: If you are looking to have a good time and let loose a little in your last year as a middle schooler, go for it. Flirt with him a little and see where it gets you. Honestly though, I am betting that this guy is not relationship material (at least at this point in the game). If you are truly interested in him as a person, you might need to wait a year or two until he has matured a bit more.
One more word of wisdom: I was in a pretty similar position to you as a middle schooler. I didn't end up with my first boyfriend until my Junior year in high school. However, I had a great time with friends and boy friends up until that point. You will see that you shouldn't have to sacrifice having a boyfriend just to make sure that you keep your grades up. It is totally possible to have a boyfriend AND be a great student. Just keep your priorities in check.
Good luck. Just remember to have FUN!
2007-09-30 22:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some advice you can take it or leave it. It is up to you. I am a 25 year old female so I have been their. I have found that guys like that are really the biggest babies in the world their needy, greedy and once the have got you they treat you like crap. So here is my advice- Think his jokes are funny, think hes a nice guy but STAY AWAY !! Find yourself someone who is smart and wants to talk about things that are important to you. Focus on yourself 8th grade is hard you are about to go into high school. I am sure you want to be with someone who is at school with you everyday not the boy who you never see cause he is suspended or gets held back. I know the "bad boys" always seem like fun but believe me it gets old real fast.
2007-09-30 22:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by lowerthanlife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it you said you didn't want to be a one day gf, You seem to have a feeling that is what you will be. Follow your first instincts because they are usually right. Maintain your distance for a while and see just how he works these gf's. Then you can decide better what you would be in for with him.
2007-09-30 22:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want this answer but the best thing would be to ignore him, you would end up more hurt in the end when you actully like him and he brakes up after 3 days than if you just let it go.
And you go girl ! That's very good policy, very few girls still have any morals.
2007-09-30 22:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by SSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking ME how to get over someone? Sheesh, I'm the person who has crushes that last a whole school year! But uh, for now, I'd just talk to him if you have to, laugh at his jokes. If he tries to go any further, just tell him you're not ready yet or that he needs to be more mature for your standards.
And if anyone suggests that you like him, just laugh it off and say, "Yeah right!"
2007-10-01 19:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for him. I've been in that situation before and decided to ignore the guy. It was a very good decision. The guy ended up being a total jerk for many years to come.
2007-09-30 22:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, and he supposedly "likes" you, why not?
I understand what you are saying about the day gf thing.
I would hate to be in that position.
I would think about wheater or not it will get to you IF you are just his day gf.
If you would get mad and do something you regret, then no, dont go out with him.
If you would just blow it off, what are you losing?
2007-09-30 22:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by ~miranda.evann. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't worth your time. Even if you do get together, you'll have an immediate personality clash and if anything he will end up being a negative influence on you. Stick to somebody with potential in life.
2007-09-30 22:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lover Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋