I waited too long to make any moves with a girl that I was dating. I was so worried that I would mess someting up I didn't really make any moves and I ended up in the friend zone after a couple of dates. This was very unfortunate because she actually approached me and asked me on a date and she had been very interested in me. I have dated a couple of other girls since then and have learned a lot about dating. I know that if I could get her to go out on a date with me again that things would be different. If I were to get another shot I would definitely not make that mistake again. I went the entire summer without seeing her and I barely talk to her in school. Do you think we have been out of contact long enough for me to escape the friend zone or is a lost cause.
2007-09-30 15:32:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the truth is u will never know until u approach her and explain it to her tht ur actually interested to develop something more then just friendship...for me, nothing is too late unless u want it to be tht way...go ahead, life is too short to worry about what ifs and what not so just go ahead and approach her...lastly good luck ya..
2007-09-30 15:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a "friend zone" for 5 years with someone before we decided to be more than "just friends." That was more than a decade ago.
I don't know what the hurry is....
Personally, being friends for long time is a good thing as you get to know each other very well. Granted, there will be surprises all along the way, but then, you will be in a better position to make an educated decision. I think you did this right, although you don't seem to think so.
2007-09-30 22:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were that girl, I think , I put you in my list as "history", but then again, there is no harm in trying. Try what you have learned in your other dates and see if it works. Good luck.
2007-09-30 22:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by still 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, just ask her out.
Life is far too short to worry about rejection and then also to think back on what could have been if onlys.
If she says no, it wasn't meant to be.
If you don't ask, then it wasn't meant to be.
2007-09-30 22:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by hercular1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's never too late, if you let it go than you'll really regret it so use all those new move you have learned and apply them to her.
2007-09-30 22:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a lost cause just go tell her how you feel and take her out!
2007-09-30 22:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by latry245 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋