i think im going to lose my virginity next weekend :o
he has a girlfriend right now
but when we were talking about this condom this guy gave me
he said
"use it on me"
i said
"no. thats called cheating"
{we dated about a week before he began dating her}
he said
"not if i dump her"
i said "okay then"
and he said "so its a date!"
i said "yep!"
he'ss all "next week"
i said "alright!"
and we hung up
is he serious about this?
if so..
help.
i dont know what to do! hha
2007-09-30 15:28:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not lose your virginity to this jerk...
do you really feel like having him be your first when he is obviously a cheater... and most likely will not dump his girlfriend for you... he is only going to use you and stay with her...
please be smart and do NOT do anything with him!
2007-09-30 15:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by Cookie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a very big crossroads in your life. Be sure that you think it through. He may break up with her then have sex with you but dump you to go back with her. You'll end up getting hurt. Give yourself to someone you have been dating a while and have strong feelings for. I know that is a cheesy statement you have heard before, but it is really the truth. Trust me, I am 26 and wish I would had made wiser decisions. Good luck!
2007-09-30 15:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by ~Shelly~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being played for a fool, don't lose your virginity to a bum who'll forget about you soon after. Besides this is something special you are supposed to keep for the man you marry, your husband in your future. That's the problem nowadays no ones willing to wait. You're just a kid in school still and he's just a little boy with his hormones running rampant. Don't do this to yourself, you'll regret it later.
2007-09-30 15:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO??? Are you stupid or something???
If he's willing to dump his girlfriend so you guys can have sex,
why won't he dump you when some other girl wants to have sex?
Sounds like a real jerk to loose your virginity to! I would hope that you would have more respect for yourself than to go through with this. Is he actually dumps his girlfriend, then so what! It doesn't mean you owe him anything! Wait until you find someone who will at least respect you, and hopefully someone who loves you!!
2007-09-30 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that the way you want to lose your virginity? As a rebound girl? How are you going to feel after he's done and then he goes back to his real girlfriend?? Save yourself the grief and emotional turmoil. Wait for real love. You'll never get your virginity back.
2007-09-30 15:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's probably just messing around. However, if he does break up with his girlfriend right and everything starts going as he has planned out here.. definatly don't go along with it.. if the guy does want to go on this 'date' with you next weekend and he breaks up with his girlfriend I think it basically shows he is horny and wants some sex. So unless you just want someone to sleep with don't do it!
2007-09-30 15:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, back up. 1. you don't know if he'll REALLY break up with her. 2. having sex for the sake of having sex is never good. 3. if you just give your virginity to a guy your not even *with* you're going to regret it. 4. when he drops you to sleep with another girl, how will you feel? theres nothing wrong with having sex, or losing your V-card, but you only get one go, and you'll enjoy it more if you're with a guy who wants to sleep with you cause he loves you. not just because, what if you meet the perfect guy next month?
2007-09-30 15:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by keeper_of_souls13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me PA #1 Hyperactive Nucklehead PERVERT! All us guys think about is SEX SEX SEX! (sometimes video games w/ hot babes) but in all honesty all he wants is for more sex. Even that I am PA #1 Perv I'm STILL a virgin cause when I do it I want it to be special. All I can say is 'Follow Your heart, if you do have sex USE A CONDOM!, and don't kiss the cat when it has fleas
2007-09-30 15:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is totally serious i would never kid about that and give someone a condom he sounds like an *** if hes going to dump that girl its probably because hes not getting any.....so dont do it just wait for the right person because if they are you wouldnt have to ask strangers if you should do it
2007-09-30 15:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by gabs/pokelover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guys getting sex. yep. he's serious.
hunny, listen to me.
only do it if you feel you really want to.
lets just fast forward a couple of weeks: you'll have given it to him, he'll be back with his gf and you'll be crying on Y!Answers with a question "Does he still like me? I gave him my virginity a couple of weeks ago and he hasnt called"
just be careful is all im saying.
you dont want to end up feeling used.
(plus, if he's willing to give up his gf now for some action, what's going to stop him cheating on you if you 2 Do get together?)
2007-09-30 15:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋