so my parents were gone this one weekend and my friends broke into my house when i was a penn state and had a party i didn't find out till after my parents got home. they blamed it all on me and now we don't talk....they want to get a relationship with me when i'm now moving out in less than 3 weeks. I'm adopted and they never really seemed to care. they only care about their blood kids and i get blamed for everything... i can't deal with this....i cry myself to sleep and my parents pretty much destroyed all my friendships by doing and saying stupid stuff to my friends and they treat me like shittt.......i was raped my 9th and 10th grade years of high school and they make fun of me for it....i really hurts and their is so much stuff i could say but i don't know what to do or where to stop....i need HELP
2007-09-30 15:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ perfect angel lips ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i understand where you're coming from
having such hurtful people in your life can truly leave permanent scars emotionally
people can tell you that you can be much stronger than this, that your parents are just saying words in the english language, but words can have meaning and it can really wound a person
if i were you, i would just be glad i'll be moving out in less than 3 weeks, and your so called friends, i would deal with them less and get new friends that i can trust
life is hard
we can only do so much as to live it to the fullest
2007-09-30 15:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by xxch0pstixx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why do you have friends that don't respect you enough to stay out of your house when you aren't there?
2. They're not really your friends.
3. Your parents do care or they wouldn't be upset, it's you projecting your low self-esteem on the situation.
4. Why do they make fun of you being raped? Are you blowing a situation out of proportion? Did you put yourself in a situation to make it easy to get raped?
2007-09-30 22:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have the police pick up the people who broke into your house. They aren't friends.
2007-09-30 22:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, friends don't do that.
It sounds like you need to see a counselor who can help you sort out your feelings. Good luck...
2007-09-30 22:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by ladybug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are emotionally abusing you and that is illegal. You need to talk to a therapist. Get away from them as soon as you can.
2007-09-30 22:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a sec ur friend broke ino ur house what???
2007-09-30 22:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋