okay, well me and my bf broke up today because he called me dumb and retarded, it wasnt the first time he called me that but it always hurts me and makes me cry and he knows that, anyway we had been together for a year and six months, should i ask him to get back with me or not....???
i really neeed help and i dont know what to do.......♥
2007-09-30 16:11:49 · 12 answers · asked by cute as a button!.♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him a lot and i called him to talk and he got mad, and he called me a b-tch.......what do i do, forget about him or keep on going....?
2007-09-30 16:12:41 · update #1
a lot of peoplez answering this Q r prob gonna say something like....
"he called u dumb, he called u a b-tch, leave him while u can and forget about him!!!"
blah blah blah blah.
well, that could b the case.
i would suggest leaving him. if he really loves u, hell want 2 get back w/ u.
but only u know the whole story. maybe he had a gud reason 4 calling u those things.
and maybe he didnt. i dk.
so, i guess what im saying is,
f u really luv him, and cant live without him, u can talk bout it and tell him that it really hurts, and u want 2 get back 2gether.
but if u think ur better than him, just remember
there was a time that u lived w/o him,
and u were happy then,
so it is possible 2 b happy w/o him.
2007-10-01 07:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you honestly asking if it's okay to get back with your ex who is verbally abusive? if you seriously can't stay away from him, then get counseling to figure out why you have a need to be in a relationship this toxic. no matter how nice he seems otherwise, behavior like this should send up a red flag and make you run as far away as possible. there are way too many good guys that will treat you like a queen all the time rather than waste your time, energy & love on a loser who won't.
2007-09-30 23:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by sleepycatz1972 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LISTEN HERE i am a 30yr man so please listen to this you should demand respect for yourself and make the person you choose to be with respect you. Its seems to me he has lost that for you don't call him don't even answer his calls for a least a couple of days teach him a lesson on RESPECT trust me if he comes back he will have a new attitude if he doesn't he is not worth the trouble you are better then that. Good Luck
2007-09-30 23:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by sflbbw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
He is tearing down your self-esteem and dignity. A good boyfriend will build you up and give you the confidence to take on the already too cruel world.
Can you imagine having a crappy day on the job and having to come home to this? No wonder so many bars boom with business right at 5pm.
2007-09-30 23:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go if he's hurting you and knows he's doing it than that's not love...If he loved you he would never do or say anything to purposely make you cry and by calling you a ***** that shows no respect...I know it will be hard but keep your head up
2007-09-30 23:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by ry ry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As you're learning to form good relationships, there is one rule of thumb that is a must: LOVE DOES NOT HURT!
If this boy is calling you names, it would most likely get worse over time. My advice is to move on.
2007-09-30 23:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex did the same to me that's verbal abuse and u shouldn't have to take any kind of abuse from anyone especially the one you love if he really loved you and wanted to be with you he wouldn't say those hurtful things I'm sorry about him saying that to you i know how it feels leave that hot mess alone you'll find your prince charming soon don't wait around to find out if that asshole is the one cause hes not
2007-09-30 23:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by briannasmommy_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously considering taking back a guy who calls you names and verbally abuses you?
Don't get back with him. Just let it be. Breaking up with him was a good choice.
2007-09-30 23:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't want him back. he does not respect you and he does not love you.
it's always goin to be hard gettin over a guy esp after a year and a half but you can do it. and you'll find someone who loves you and respects you.
learn to love and respect yourself first, then you'll see how he didn't and when others don't. you won't allow yourself to be treated that way once you learn to love yourself.
2007-09-30 23:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by esa0902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run like crazy and count yourself lucky to be out of that relationship. Verbal abuse is a precursor to physical abuse. You don't need a jerk like that.
2007-09-30 23:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋