Went to a friends party and she let me know a guy at the party liked me. She was on the phone talking to him and he wanted my number but I really wasn't feeling him so I declined. Well he added me on his myspace and I saw pictures that looked like he was a big partier and turned me off. About a month later I started to think I might have made a mistake and I emailed him and gave him my screen name. We have been talking online and he seems nice but there is just something about him I don't like (not sure what). I think maybe I am being too shallow. I am not sure if I am too critical and expect too much. I think I'm a pretty good catch and think I have high hopes for a boyfriend. He wanted me to go out with him and my friend his weekend but I lied and said I was busy. Should I agree to go on a date with him? I'm just so nice and I don't want to go out with him just having one date and having to end it from there.
2007-09-30 15:10:08 · 11 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think one date would hurt. Plus it would give you the chance to get to know him better. I f you don't feel comfortable then do a double date with your friend. You just might find out that you were wrong. If you're not no big loss, you only wasted an evening or two. Us guys usually show our "true colors" pretty quickly.
2007-09-30 16:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by ............... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something about this guy that bothers you,So go with your instincts and listen to that still small voice that is nagging at your back of your mind to avoid him. There is something that just isn't right about him and you can't quite put your finger on it. Listen to yourself , it's a gut feeling that something is very wrong. If more people listened to their inner-selves, Then they could avoid the pain of a bad relationship.
2007-09-30 22:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it.... go with your gut feeling, your intuition. "Something" isn't right.... pay attention to what your intuition is telling you. No sense trying to be nice if all you can think about it what is not right. Move on, I'm sure you'll find a nice guy to get to know, ok? Someone who doesn't scream "red flag".
2007-10-01 06:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont judge yet what will happen next...try to go out with him so you will know who he really is. b/c you can't tell what type of person he is now if you just keep thinking things that can bother you and not even close the real him, who knows if he is more nice of what you though or worse than what you think...good luck
2007-09-30 22:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by MOMMY_G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Split the difference and go on a double date
2007-09-30 22:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let my instincts guide me. If I felt uncomfortable about going out with a guy, I wouldn't go. You were probably right to decline.
2007-09-30 22:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him you want to go out but as friends, as you're not a person who moves too fast.
and see how it goes, because you might end up really liking him after that date, or you might end up disliking him.
so give your self a chance to see how you will feel..
good luck
xoxo kendi
2007-09-30 22:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kendi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say trust your instincts, if you're not feeling him there is probably a reason!! I try to follow my instincts on these kinds of things!! Good Luck!!
2007-09-30 22:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go out with him, see how it goes and if he still seems like a big partier don't go out with him again. just bite the bullet.
2007-09-30 22:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by wildchcik_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance life is all about taking chances.
u will never know until u try
2007-09-30 22:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by onesensitivepoet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋