i want someone to hold me so bad, i want someone to take care of, i want someone to kiss and hug and smile with, i want sex on a regular basis, i want someone who makes me want to get up in the morning and look forward to the day. i don't think i'm ever gonna find it, how will i ever be happy? am i just destined to go through life without ever feeling that happiness, and being completely miserable?
2007-09-30 15:01:55 · 21 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
SoulDawg...i am far from high school. I am a college grad, as of a year and a half ago.
2007-09-30 15:11:13 · update #1
My first question is, how old are you?! If you are in your teens, you really shouldn't worry. Trust me, you have PLENTY of time to find love.
I remember yearning for true love all throughout high school. Just be patient. In the meantime appreciate what's good about being unattached.
2007-09-30 15:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel but you have to learn to be happy by yourself first.
I have wanted to be a stay at home mom since I was 5 years old and I'm well beyond that age now but I still want it. I crave it so bad that sometimes I wake in the middle of the night with that ache.
Marriage is such a blessing and such an awesome miralce and gift from God and sometimes I just cry and think why God why havent you alloweed me a husband yet? It hurts it does but at the same time I have learned to be happy without a husband it doesn't mean I don't want one. i really do.
And God takes care of me every day and he will always take care of me. And even when i get married he will be the only one that can reach every part of me.
I pray that you will be blessed with that one person but in the meantime I pray you learn to be happy with yourself.
2007-09-30 22:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is realize that having a significant other isn't what you need. Look at the brighter side of being single. HAVE FUN! flirt, party.. but be classy. You shouldn't feel so unhappy hoping for someone. Enjoy your single life. Have fun with your girlfriends, and flirt around! really... just enjoy yourself. In no time, a special someone will find you.
2007-09-30 22:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by moroccobaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm definitely one of those people that is happier when they are in a good relationship. It's ok to be a little dependent. My man is deployed right now so I feel your pain girl. And I found him when I wasn't even looking. I had finally given up on relationships and was sick of dating *** holes, and then there he was! lol. You just have to be patient. And you really should use this time to do some self searching and learn to love who you are. Read some books (possibly even on this topic), join a singles group in your area to meet people, exercise, scrapbook, learn to cook if you don't know how already. Even though it's ok to feel better in a relationship, a man is going to want to see that you are a happy, confident person. I hope my advice helped. Just give it time.
2007-09-30 22:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need somebody like me. But I can't tell you where to find me because that will destroy my anonymity. I guess you could do one of two things. You could either sit back and wait (maybe the UPS delivery guy will find you fetching), or you could go out and look. Hang out at the grocery store, and smile a lot, and be friendly. Because I learned a long time ago that's all a girl really needs to do to get guys to ask her out. They just need to smile. That makes a guy feel safe, and he's more likely to strike up a conversation with you.
2007-09-30 22:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will... Just be yourself. Learn to be happy with yourself regardless and the right person will show eventually. Set an example... Be happy! There are a lot of fish in the sea!
2007-09-30 22:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by Rex B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want some like that too, but pining for it and being sad about it slows me down from what actually is my everyday life. Be happy with yourself and you will be truly happy. If you think someone else will make you happy, you are mistaken. Being with someone should enhance your life, not make it.
2007-09-30 22:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that you first need to be able to be happy on your own, to be able to pursue your goals in life and live life to the fullest. Having done that, someone else may come in and be interested in sharing what you already have.
Again, this is what has been told to me. I, too, am still waiting for the perfect one to come and share it with me. One day, she'll come. I have hope.
2007-10-01 14:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by JustANiceGuyHere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through this feelings sometimes. the more you think about it the longer it will take you to find the right one. Dont jump into meeting anyone it may or will be the wrong one. Be patient
2007-09-30 22:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by mystcarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling.. i had all that with my husband--or so i thought. we married in feb after being together for 3 years and a couple months later he woke up and decided he didnt want to be married anymore. so instead of looking for someone to love, i concentrated on me. i bought myself flowers and made me the center of my world. although i still want/need someone in my life now i know i will be a better person for him because of the work im doing on me. so i do recommend that you make yourself happy so when your soul mate comes along you are open to receiving that person. besides we can only depend on ourselves to make us happy. surround yourself with good people i.e. friends and family and live life to its fullest. that person WILL come to you and you will be able to accept that person because you will be complete with or with out them.
2007-09-30 22:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by BeautifulMess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋