I think she will be mad if I tell her but i need help,have any ideas ???????/
2007-09-30 15:14:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I liked him first
2007-09-30 15:25:10 · update #1
I liked him first
2007-09-30 15:26:20 · update #2
I liked him first
2007-09-30 15:26:24 · update #3
Well if I liked a girl that my buddie liked, id tell him that he should ask her out cause that would just be the right thing to do. BUT, if he didn't make a move after a while id ask him if he still liked him. If no, id ask him if he'd care if i could ask her out. If yes, just back off and wait it out. Good luck!!!
2007-09-30 15:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. I'v seen way to many friendships ruined over this sort of thing. If you like this guy alot and dont think you'r going to be able to move on to someone else then try to find her another guy. Tell her she would make a cute couple with someone else.. Give it awhile, After she falls for another guy then go for him.
I'v done this before, And my friend never knew that we liked the guy at the same time.. and we both ended up happy. So everyone wins =] If you just like this guy a little and its no big deal, Then move on to someone diffrent and give your friend a chance to be happy with him.
2007-09-30 22:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by m a r y j a n e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes: don't tell her. If she said it first, then by the laws of friendship, you are automatically negated from liking or having feelings for the same guy. It could ruin your friendship, and no guy is worth losing a friend over. Find someone else...Good Luck!
2007-09-30 22:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your just going to have to tell her. If she doesn't find out she's going to be mad that you didn't tell her. Just remember whatever happens a guy should never come before a friend because guys come and go but friends stay together forever.
2007-09-30 22:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her it'll make things awkward, sometimes you have to let things go, She said she liked him first so that means he's off limits to you, A good friendship is more important than competition for a guy.
2007-09-30 22:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be totally honest, I just flat out wouldn't tell her, she could get mad enough to the point where she wouldn't want to be friends anymore. I'd wait a little bit.
2007-09-30 22:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her, it might be a good way to lose your friend. She will feel uncomfortable around you, and when the guy is around, she will not want you there. I would say nothing. Let the guy make his choice. It may not be either of you.
2007-09-30 22:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough! I wouldn't tell her if she liked him first. Because once you knew that she liked him then he's off limits
2007-09-30 22:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you will lose a gf and gain a b/f
2007-09-30 22:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show some class and let them be.
2007-09-30 22:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by I am, I said 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋