I'm in high school right now and there's a girl that I really liked last year, but I was too shy to admit to it. Then, about halfway through the year, her seat was moved so that she sat in front of me in one of my classes. She started playing little games with me and sort of flirting. She also kept trwould stretch every once in a while to touch me and I was almost certain she like me back. Unfortunately, I got very intimidated when she started pursuing me and I managed to convince myself that she was just using me. When I saw her in class this year, I actually got mad at her for having used me even though I know she didn't and tried to convince myself that I didn't like her anymore, but I still do. I think she still likes me to some extent, but seems to have given up on me because I managed to almost completely avoid her last year. My question is very vague: I just want to know what you think I should do about this because I'm completely lost. Any advice would be appreciated.
2007-09-30 14:32:11 · 4 answers · asked by Complete and Total Idiot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that I should just tell her straight out what my feelings are, but there's no way I'm ever going to get enough courage to do so. Are there any alternatives or ways I can tell her without freaking out?
2007-09-30 14:33:54 · update #1
Write her a letter telling her why you were a jackass to her. I have had to use the written word to tell a girl that I was totally in love with but couldn't tell her any other way. She was very nice to me after that. Try it you have nothing to lose but the girl. May the words be with you.
2007-09-30 14:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she didnt use. u should have been happy because more often then not, u have the least contact with the person you like the most. get over the idea that she used u. she flirted with you and you should have flirted with her. it would have opened things up to move forward. but now, you have to get over it and just start talkin to her like it never happened. its probably hard for you, but it you still like her and she likes you, than theres nothing else to do except give it a shot.
2007-09-30 21:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Many Questions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she used you. Maybe led you on a little. Start to flirt back if you like her. Show her that you are interested in her. If she asks why you ignored her explain what you had thought.
2007-09-30 21:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by goose_hart09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to talk and see whats up
2007-09-30 21:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by anna banana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋