I think i'm being sexually abused by my brother and i'm tired of it. He makes rude nasty remarks that i do not appreciate. HELP!
2007-09-30 15:01:38 · 8 answers · asked by Riley K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell him to shut the f*** up....go tell your parents...thats NOT RIGHT!!!!!! tell someone at your school. tell anyone with the athority to make him STOP!!! he will get nowhere in life acting like THAT!!!
2007-09-30 15:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to stand up for yourself. You don't have to be his victim. He gets his jollies from knowing he is upsetting you. It's a power play on his part. Take back your power from him. He's very insecure and if you start to see him that way it will help you deal with his abuse.
Talk to your parents and tell them the things he's been saying, word for word. You may want to try to capture in on tape since he'll most likely deny having said any of it when they confront him. If you're able to get a recording of his verbal abuse he will have to own up to it.
2007-09-30 22:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexually abused is different then verbal abuse with sexual overtones. If he threatens you with some act intercourse then first tell your parents then tell the child abuse hot line 911 has the number. If he is mouthing off to you wait till he is asleep and get a frying pan then work him over good. That should stop things.
2007-09-30 22:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez thats sad, especially when you live under the same roof, have you said anythign to a parent? or maybe a counselor, if you cant say it to him, he obviusly wants to get a reaction from you and know it can be hard to ignore but other than that i would say somethign to someone you trust that can help with this if he wont cooperate, beleive i know i sort of had the same thing with a relative i was growing up with, its frustrating,m but if you can just not react it can help, ggoood luck!
2007-09-30 22:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't react. ignore him if you can. Seek help from your folks. Or better else, talk to him like you really mean business. Tell him how it hurts you or pisses you off. Tell him he is being rude.
2007-09-30 22:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by 102845 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu probably should talk to a teacher and/or maybe your parents.
2007-09-30 22:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by arburndragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time that he does it, slap his face, and tell him to stop.
2007-09-30 22:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not raping you... just ignore him.
Tell your parents?
2007-09-30 22:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋