I asked this question and nobody answered me as am trying to solve my marriage issues. I used to be hurt always but never minded as there was nothing i was to tell and she accept it. However if a woman chose to spend nights on the couch while a husband slept on bed, i considered it as she don't want you or being around you when you man know that he did not put you out of bedroom. if she ever want to come to sleep on bed she sleep opposite way only for your husband to hold your legs and if he request you to sleep right you tell him " hell no". What do you think your husband would do/feel about you? what would you expect you husband to do?
2007-09-30 13:23:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she likes the smell of your feet? Maybe she likes intense back pain and bed sores?
2007-09-30 13:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by ranch_tester 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... i don't know... i think it would be pretty strange.... but when me and my guy used to not get along and i would opt to sleep on the couch he would come in there with me.... he would tell me that he didn't like to sleep without me... and didn't want to sleep alone... i thought it was very sweet... and i would end up coming back in the room once we both got uncomfortable sleeping in the living room..... but there was a time that we slept in the same bed and i slept the wrong way... (there was a reason why... and it wasn't because we were upset with each other) but i woke up to him being upset cause he didn't understand why i "wasn't sleeping right".... i explained.... and though it didn't ease his mind i just never slept the wrong way again... if one of us decided to sleep across the bed.... then we both did.... if one slept at the bottom of the bed... we both did.... problem solved right?.... plus sleeping is supposed to be a peaceful time.... so why not be peaceful.... good luck i guess...
2007-09-30 13:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what the reason is there has to be a reason why she does not want to sleep facing you. I hate to say this but could it be your breath, i know my husbands breath gets so bad it almost makes me sick to my stomach and i do one or two things i tell him to roll on his side or i turn the other way. Some times that doesn't help because his breath is that strong. Ask her if it's your breath?
2007-09-30 13:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women, and I am one of them, do not like to be mauled while they sleep..they like to be left alone to sleep in peace. It does not mean that your wife doesn't love you or want to be near you. It might simply mean that she wants to sleep, and that she sleeps better when she is left alone.
When you are married, you have to find what works for BOTH of you, and in this case, it might be that you have to give in a little and after you fall asleep at night, let her have her space and not be all over her.
Good luck to you both.
2007-09-30 13:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by rose_32008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's strange. I know that it has to hurt. Is she angry with you? You have to ask her why she doesn't want to sleep with you and ask her what you can do to fix it. If she doesn't want to tell you then ask her if she wants a divorce and if she does give it to her.
2007-09-30 13:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry Nicholas, I'm not trying to be rude to you, but I would certainly answer your question if I could only understand it...
2007-09-30 13:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand this question... why would you hold someone's legs while they are sleeping anyway?
2007-09-30 13:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by dream_girl 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that is weird...I wouldn't want my hubby holding my legs while I slept. I'd kick him....
2007-09-30 13:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's weird that you hold her legs and you must've done somethin to pisss her off and you should ask her about it
2007-09-30 13:32:37 · answer #9 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see why nobody answered you, because we can't understand what you are talking about?
2007-09-30 13:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋