how do i let my boyfriend know i need more romance? i love him to death but i'd like to have a couple romantic nights out every so often. he has potential i know it lol he always dedicates songs to me and he was on vacation over the summer and i had surgery and he sent me flowers. any advice is very much appreciated thanks!!!!
2007-09-30 12:32:39 · 11 answers · asked by Becs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i need to tell him but how can i do it in a nice polite way that won't come off as you suck cuz you don't romance me
2007-09-30 12:42:26 · update #1
Some of us just aren't that romantic. We don't think about it that much.
We are not mind readers either. If you have fantasies about what is romantic, and he doesn't do that now, he never will... unless you tell him what you find romantic.
I know that takes the spontaneity out of it, but you have to ask the world for what you want before you are going to get it.
2007-09-30 12:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you plan something romantic for him and show him what you want. Honestly, guys don't have a clue about this kind of stuff sometimes unless they see it in the commercials during big playoff games or bowls.
Plan a romantic evening and surprise him. Then say, "now it's your turn." Do that a couple of times and he will get the message. It may take him a little while to figure out HOW to do it, but he'll know WHAT to do.
2007-10-08 12:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take the direct approach. Tell him that you would like more romantic nights alone w/ him...give him some ideas..guys can't read minds..so it might help him ease into being more romantic a little easier:) hope all goes well
2007-09-30 12:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's why it's called dating.. you find a guy who matches the kind of romance that you like
if you have to keep telling him.. then you will always have to keep telling him
if he has other qualities you like then maybe you can over look things you dont like
2007-09-30 12:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by pastels c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think if its hard for you to tell him you should show him!!! tell him you want to pick the date, where it should be at. go some where so romantic he will get the picture!
2007-10-08 10:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by Katerape 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unwise. Playing the field is too much fun! And if you play the field when you're old and divorced the pickings are slim!
2016-04-06 08:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe without telling him straight to his face, tell one of his best friends and he can maybe tell him to use more romance.
2007-09-30 12:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE THING TO DO IS JUST TELL HIM, ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS TALK TO HIM, HE WILL UNDERSTAND OK.
2007-10-07 23:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel...tell him what you want/need.
being open is good for both of you.
2007-09-30 12:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him...call him..write him a poem or note or something.
2007-10-08 12:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Princess Abby♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋