When they cheat they degrade themselves not you?
2007-09-30 13:39:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
awesome point, its actually what i told my husband. he is the fool and get his life right. but yet, it hurts because we are human and have feelings.
2007-09-30 15:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when they cheat, they invite not only one other person into the relationship but every person that the other woman has been with, and every person that those people have been with ! AIDS & STDs aren't particular about who they infect and unfortunately it's usually the innocent person at the end of the line! A cheating spouse is a person who can not be trusted for anything as they do not value contracts, they do not value promises, they do not value vows made before courts and God. If a person wants to start messing around, he or she should tell their spouse, make a legal break and then go off and contract diseases on their own. The person they leave may end up having a broken heart for awhile but that's better than a death sentence from a disease.
2007-09-30 20:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would care if my husband cheated on me. Luckily I have an honest marriage and a husband who is respected and devoted to me.
And no, when they cheat they degrade the relationship the two of you share. All because they can not focus on the problems in their marriage, so they seek distraction by going and having sex with someone. Or even an emotional affair. Either way, they are showing they don't care about the marriage.
2007-09-30 20:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? If you didnt care than you obviously dont love that person.. it is degrading to them your right but very disrespectful to the g/f or b/f when you decide to be with somebody exclusivley you are giving your whole self to that person you are intimate with that person and share things with them that nobody else knows, not to mention it is untrustworthy that person puts all there trust in you and you break that they expect you to be with only them and commit yourself to them and then they go and give it to somebody else..if you cheat it is obviously because the person you are with just isnt enough so you went and found it somewhere else...if that person isnt doing it for you anymore you need to break it off why drag the inevitable out and hurt the person that cares so much about you even more?? A relationshiop is built on trust, understanding, love and devotion, that person gives you their heart and then somebody goes and breaks it ..woudnt you care?
2007-09-30 20:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because its not just about degrading someone. Its about losing trust and loyalty and respect..its losing the security of the marriage or relationship that you had. If one were to cheat seriously what are you left with???
2007-09-30 20:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts to know there is another person in their life. It's life you are not good enough anymore and they need a replacement. It makes you feel as though your whole relationship has gone to waste....all that time spent together and building a relationship for nothing. You trust that person and would do anything for them....but they don't return the favor. Instead, they have an relationship with another person and don't tell you about it because they don't give a care.
2007-09-30 20:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cared (past tense) because I truly thought I was the world to him, I thought I was his dream come true, I thought he found me so beautiful, so sexy, and so incredibly attractive, that there was no way he could ever have eyes for anyone but me...I cared because he was the very first man I ever fell in love with, and the very first one I ever shed a tear for...he never actually did anything (didn't act upon his desires), but just the fact that he contemplated the possibility, ruined everything. I hated the fact that he was so stupid that he told me everything, showing complete disregard for how I would feel after knowing how attracted he was to another person (he broke my heart).
2007-09-30 20:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u care because u love them, and it hurts to be kicked to the curb, and your whole life as u knew it overtaken by someone else. its humiliating, embarrassing, and chips away at your self worth and ego. suddenly your safe world where u thought u were loved has changed, and u know its over with, because even if u could forgive u will never feel the same about them again. u know there is no taking it back or undoing it, its over with and u don't understand how someone u loved and thought they loved u could do such a thing. u care because its totally upset your world, and u know u can never get it back.
2007-09-30 20:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.myweddingvows.com/traditional-wedding-vows/christian-wedding-vows
that is a link to sample wedding vows..... when a spouse cheats they are not only degrading themselves.... but its degrading to your marriage, which you are apart of....
well thats all the time i have to waste on such a ridiculous question....
2007-09-30 20:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. I work da** hard at being the woman of his dreams...
2. Think of the STDs he could bring home... one night of his pleasure isn't worth my life or some nasty disease..
3. He's cheating both of us out of the security and trust in a marriage if he's cheating..
silverfoxx - thanks :) Seems we're both thinking the same things tonight...
2007-09-30 20:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You do not know because if you had it happen to you would not be asking this question. Maybe your boyfriend will cheat on you and you can feel that feeling.
2007-09-30 21:16:27 · answer #11 · answered by s f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋