They really don't like me and I've tried to get along with them but their real pricks
2007-09-30 02:49:52 · 8 answers · asked by jdainchrist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you, and how old is this girl? Parents will go to the end of the earth to protect their kids. And if they feel as though you are not someone they want their daughter to be with, then they will not allow her to be with you. You may be a great person, and they just don't see that. Some parents don't even give someone like yourself a chance to prove to them that you have good intentions and that you have a good heart. That's because they are scared. And it's normal for parents to be cautious.
Has something happened before that made them think this way of you? If by chance you made a mistake, it will take a while before you can prove to them that you have learned from your mistake, and that they can trust you.
If you're not understanding why they don't like you, then I would face up to them and ask them why. In a mature manner that is. This way it will give them a chance to tell you, and it will give you a chance to defend yourself. If they still don't back off, and later allow their daughter to go out with you, then I would suggest you back off kindly, and tell the girl you are going out with that right now isn't the time for a relationship with her and that later on down the road, may be you all can try again.
This is all I can say without knowing your age. I hope it works out for you, but respect her parents and what they say. What they say, goes if she's under 18. Even if you don't agree. If you don't, then it will stir up even more trouble than you and your gf need.
2007-09-30 03:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by lady_bella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice to them and try to get them to trust you. they also dont like you because they have heard bed things about your background. convince them you are wrong. and by the way, its you and your girlfriend that are going out, not you, your girlfriend, and her parents! besides, they should be happy for their daughter that she has a boyfriend that she really likes. good luck with everything!
Alma
2007-09-30 09:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by *Alma* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's your attitude they don't like. Until you change, they're not going to let her go anywhere with you.
2007-09-30 09:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you'll have her home early and then ask them what time do you want her home it works a lot
2007-09-30 09:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by kolan333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another girlfriend.
2007-09-30 09:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
jus act nice guy n theyll let u take her.
2007-09-30 09:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by kewl me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could invite them with you and your gf?
2007-09-30 09:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tie them to a chair!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 09:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by ryannewman83 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋