I need help with this
2007-09-30 18:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first off what's your disability? Yes people on the internet are going to make fun of you because of it, but those of us who are serious about helping people need that kinda of information to help you. I mean theres a huge difference in advice that I've give someone who just uses a wheel chair, vs. someone who's got burns over 90% of their body. Add that detail in and we'll help...well someone will I can't reply again. Sorry mate!
2007-09-30 18:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by Advice4U 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Focus on getting to know her. So what if you have a disabilty you are human and deserve love and attention just like anybody else. Just keep it simple don't let her know you like her just yet. Ejoy having a simple conversation about school,what she does over the weekend. Keep it like this for a few weeks then ask her if she would like to have lunch or coffee with you. Don't say would you like to go out with me girls run away. You will do just fine everybody has more than 3 things that are good about them. Good luck be calm =)
2007-09-30 19:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by 2cute4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you feel is best. Ask her out. I mean. whats the worst she can do? Turn you down. And big deal, life goes on.
If the disability is a problem for her, then she isn't someone you should be associating with anyways.
2007-10-04 19:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how you perceive your disablity. If it's not that big of a deal, just get to know her and see if there's a chemistry first. Don't just tell someone you like them out of the blue because it'll be hard for them to conceive especially if you don't know each other that well.
If you know her fairly well and feel there might be some chemistry...then your disability shouldn't stop you. Just prepare yourself and don't overreact if you get turned down....plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-09-30 18:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by SlamDUNK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take the chance and be happy with yourself for trying. Whatever happens, you're being real and courageous, and if this one doesn't work out then next time or the one after that will. Give yourself credit for taking chances in life, whatever the outcome.
2007-09-30 18:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can say is get her e-mail address and e-mail her letting her know what you feel about her, or her home address or phone number explain your self to her and see what happens. and you should never be ashamed because of a disability, you are still human.
2007-09-30 18:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's your disability have to do with not talking to a girl? it's only a disability if YOU make it one....
2007-09-30 18:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Ty just be your self and you will do fine!!!!!! do not let your diability stand in your way!!!!! if someone is going to like you they will like you for you, not what you have or dont have!!!!!! if she is worth you and your time things will work out, just rember any girl that will make you "cry" is not worth the tears, and the one who is wont make you cry. keep my word in mind and it will all work for the best!!!!!!!!! also show her your confidence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-30 19:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by alexia's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 85% deaf and i have never had problems with girls.i just was never afraid of girls. i see them as the next oppurtunity, not the end of the world. so just be yourself and good luck.
2007-09-30 19:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋