Well my dads pretty awesome! were pretty close and i tell him everything. But him and i were having a talk about boys ect. and we were talking about my ex and what a jerk he was.
my dad was like
"well i dont understand why you kept going out w/ him, you can have any guy you want ect"
Then he went on to say that my ex might have been attrative but he was a jerk on the inside. And he told me that you dont need to be attractive its your personality that matters. He said
"look at me and really ugly and scary looking. But when i was dating when i was younger i went out w/ ome very attractive women, so pretty they could have been modles, but they had no personalitly so it didnt last long"
he said "it dosent matter how you look, its whats on the inside"
i understand him message but was he implying im not pretty? i feel kinda bad now...
2007-09-30 20:04:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think he's saying that you don't have to look like a supermodel to have a great relationship... not that you're ugly :) I wouldn't take it to heart at all! Sounds like you really do have a cool dad btw.
2007-09-30 20:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Cochy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>>> well i dont understand why you kept going out w/ him, you can have any guy you want ect"
Then he went on to say that my ex might have been attrative but he was a jerk on the inside. And he told me that you dont need to be attractive its your personality that matters.
You silly little thing. Your dad was talking about your ex.
He meant that even though your ex may have been attractive, it's not being attractive that matters. It's personality and he didn't have a good one.
Best Wishes
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2007-09-30 20:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was trying to explain to u the importance of "whats on the inside is what really matters". he means that ur ex boyfriend might of had good looks, but he was a jerk on the inside. maybe he had a bad personality or whatever. anyways, i dont think he said anything to lead on that ur not good looking. he was just trying to explain to u that looks arent everything when looking for a guy. u need to find someone that has a good heart and good personality and is a good person. so dont takei t personal, its good advice and its true.
2007-09-30 20:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Scotty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like a women to analyze something to death. No he wasn't saying you were ugly. He was implying that the only thing your ex had going for him was his looks, and maybe thats all you saw in him. He was telling you to look beyond appearance. Good luck. Tell your dad I said hi.
2007-09-30 20:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by cmf74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way is sounds your dad was telling you that it is what is on the inside that matters and not looks. he was not saying anything about you. don't take it to heart.
2007-09-30 21:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by maraloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad was saying looks don't matter but he was not saying that you are unattractive. He said, "You can have any guy you want." That means you can attract anyone you want to - he does not want you to choose your dates by their looks though.
2007-09-30 20:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He was trying to tell you to stop just "hooking up" with the cutsie guys based on just looks, He wasn't referring to you sweetie. He wants you to look at the guy from his heart and soul, not just his blue eyes and six pack tummy!
2007-10-01 02:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh sounds like it to me
2007-09-30 20:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋