my friend, a ldy of 26yrs got married 2 a person who works far off. IT was an arranged marriage he couldnt take her along citing visa problems , they stayed together for 7 days , they had lots of time togethe,r both liked each other, lots of foreplay but no lovemaking . he was not impotent ,he came back after 6 months but again every thing fine but no lovemaking citing tiredness due to lag jet ...stayed for 14 day to come back after 6 months...... this time same story .. was very shy even to buy a condom....... she went and got one but he never thought of using it...........meanwhile she was very depressed he started blaming her for every thing used to side with others when she had a tiff with his relatives . she finally left him but couldnt find answer to this strange predicament , any suggestions
2007-09-30 18:44:48 · 8 answers · asked by emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he was a she!
2007-09-30 19:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by niffer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possible he had another committment somewhere else...that she didn't know about.(the "visa things sounds questionable.......or he could have been gay...or he could genuinely not want a relationship outside of marriage...but didn't want to totally committ himself...or had reasons for not doing so..maybe he had a physical problem he didn't want her to know about? why couldn't she get answers from him?.......and when he started blaming her, he wanted out...but didn't know how to do it. She obviously didn't know him really at all, or she would know the answer...so she needs to just forget it and move on......someday she may find out what was really the problem...or now that it is over, maybe she could just ask!
2007-10-05 01:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, but gay men sometimes marry just to put a front up for the family. He is probably gay, and did not want to admit it to his family, so he agreed to the arranged marriage.
2007-10-01 02:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly he married only because he had to??? Possibly he's seeing someone else, not necessarily a woman either. In other words, he married to cover up being gay?
The leaving him?? Good move on her part!
2007-10-01 01:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by MamaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing she left him. He is no good. Better safe than sorry.Sex and marriage is not everything in life. Get a life get a career an education.
2007-10-01 01:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy has some mental problems. She's better off without him.
2007-10-01 01:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by hrcarr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i know this is serious but it sound like a soap. I wish her the best, good for her.
2007-10-01 01:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is gay.
2007-10-01 01:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋