I knew this girl for two years and through out the two years we have been really close friends to the point that we were basically going out. Over the summer she called and said that she had met this guy and she was sorry and that there was no real room for me. She calls me later and asks about advice about her new boyfriend and another guy she likes (the guy she's with now) and I get kind of weirded out because she's calling me and the stuff she was talking about kind of hurt me. So we kind of drift apart, after a really pointless fight and because the relationship was really strained. I see her in school now and feel really stupid about the whole thing so I went and tried to apologize and I said we should talk about it. She said "What's there to talk about?" She hadn't said a word to me even though her locker is right by mine. I've tried to talk to her a couple of times but only got a negative reaction every time. She seem really different now. Is she worth pursuing? ran out of space
2007-09-30 23:35:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's a real jerk. Forget her. Any slob who calls you and tells you there's no room for you and then calls you and asks for advice about her bf's is a hurtful and trashy "user".
What the hell do you have apologize for? She was the cold, b*tch. You don't need this kind of abusive person in your life. She lacks class.
Be glad you don't have to talk with her. And don't kiss her butt when she tries to "buddy up" which this manipulative little twit will likely do. She's screwing with your emotions.
2007-09-30 23:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU apologized?! WHAT?! HELL NO! I would NEVER apologize to some chic who led me on for TWO YEARS of my life, you guys were practically going out and then all of a sudden there's no room for me?!...yo...this girl has got you HUNG STRUNG. No way in hell is a girl like this worth pursuing in the least. SHE should be apologizing for having you all up on her for 2 years and then ditching you...then she had the nerve and audacity to call YOU up...the guy she ditched for relationship advice with someone else?! yo... F(%* THAT! She threw you in the friendship zone. Go find another girl. Seriously.
2007-10-01 06:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most probably she just wanted to remain friends with you...she was perhaps asking you for advice because you do matter in her life but not in a romantic way...
and another possible reason would be she was leading you on...
i think it's best if you get over her...though there could be a chnace of you being jsut friends...
anyways...all the best
2007-10-01 06:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by mou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why pursue ???
she has made a choice
by her actions
she valued your friendship
but she does not like you as more
and you did say the conversations
were painful
my advice is to say you are sorry
how things worked out and
move on
trust me it will hurt more
if you keep prolonging it
YOU are the one holding on
not her
so for your sake let her go
and focus on someone who
wants more from you
and if you are worried about
lost friendship
remember you cannot please EVERYONE
especially at your expense
wP
2007-10-01 06:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Warriorpoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is a problem. You need to more on. How many time does she need to tell you. Get over it.
2007-10-01 06:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it.
She's not worth pursuing. Maybe if you leave her, she will even realise that she wishes you were still there. Maybe, maybe not.
Just get on with life.
2007-10-01 06:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Some people find it hard to realize it's over.
2007-10-01 06:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no forget her. you deserve someone who really cares aout you. it seems like to me that you were just her back up and she wasn't thinking about anyone except herself. put your feelings first, she hurt you deeply and do you really want to give her that power to do it again? i say find someone who truly cares about your feelings. you deserve better then her.
2007-10-01 06:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about your feelings and write for her a poem, dont tell her at first but when you get to the middle of the poem, tell her!
2007-10-01 06:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she thot u were over her .. maybe she dint realize she wus hurtin you .. did u tell her that it did? well duh u obviously did .. well i dunno .. do u wanna be frds agen or more ? tell her her wut u want .. maybe she dusnt get wut ure tryin to tell her ? i mean i dunt think a person can chg just like that .. if she dusnt want any kind of relationship with you even if uve explained everything .. then its her choice .. move on :)
2007-10-01 06:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋