why is it so complicated just for a normal partner to love to share?

Question

I have friends and i live alone,i try and improve every day but i seriously dont have anyone to share with ,my soul feels empty many times my lovers are just for fun i cant find anuthing deeper ,I dont want any possesion i cant find a partner,Being alone is so depressing why?cant i face myself why do i need someone to prove to me im ok ,i tried buddhism i tried practices i just cant do this anumore i cant really not have someone i feel i can share with my world .Are there other alone how can todays sociaty be so packed but also so lonely we have mobiles we have msn every were we go there pack of people ,we have friends but we are more lonely then ever ,most relationships are so troubled sleeping around braking up ,why is it so complicated just for a normal partner to love to share,I try to appreciate everything in life and pain is part of life but today its to strong i cant face it ,its really getting me .

Answer 1

First, are you referring to someone you are havin a seemingly serious affair? Well you know anything that you dont get serious at the start will really find you out at the end..maybe you used to play, just mere playing..well it is not all play and it should never be just a play..try gettin serious, dont just pretend it, try to give what you CAN without hesitation, show your love in full and you will surely reap it in time. Learn to trust love no matter what..God is gracious to them who are seeking sincerely..If you are a man be sure to initiate everything.. A woman has pride of themselves no matter what she feels, she can restrain it if she is hurt by you..and in case you have caused her to doubt, be sure to do somethin she likes that you can earn her trust again.
For all you know she is just waiting for a big miracle. And how would you know if there are other people from your side trying to hinder your love affair, making her confused..be sure to clear your side so that you can just be sure that whats left is just hers to act upon..and if she is mature enough you dont have to doubt her thoughts of sanity or sincerity or the likes. It is your full responsibility as a man to do all you can in a gentle way, persistent may be but be sure to be humane, gentle and not too sarcastic..Women may be sarcastic at times but just to the point of lettin you feel she is around and she wants to know how important she really is to you..once she is convinced that you have no vested interest in her except love her to the fullest , without condition, no matter how you think of her, whether she is candid, intelligent, moneyed or unmoneyed,stupid or apathetic, she wouldn*t mind how she is to others what is important is how she is to you.if you be successful in making her feel she is the only current woman for you in the world and you can let her feel you seem cant live without her, would do anyathin for her, then rest assured, you will be able to convince her to move faster and she gets to you in time..or you may get to her if it is impossible for her to go to you by herself. Just be sure she is never scared by yur tactics, otherwise you start to zero again. ok, good luck, man.it is sincerely from me, at your service..and of course dont forget to pray,as prayer changes things, be careful of what you ask from God..

Answer 2

You are in a deep state of depression and low self esteem, which makes me believe there is more behind this than what you are saying. Being lonely without a partner is normal,, but for some people it's fine. They don't mind being alone.You are extreme. Talk to your doctor and ask for a good therapist you can talk to and find out about your extremist feelings.

Answer 3

Your outlook that your lovers are just for fun, is where your problem seems to lie. You are attracting the wrong kind of partner. Try to get beyond the recreational sex bit and love someone for who they are. Sex, is OK with someone who hardly matters to you, but it's FANTASTIC with someone you actually love. Join a club or group you are interested in, try to meet and make friends of men/women who share your interests and beliefs. Don't just jump into bed with the first fool you find, I think that's what you have been doing (based on your comment).

Answer 4

never give up. just keep searching, you'll find someone to love and cheerish you. but you can find the greatest love in Jesus Christ. He alone can give you that peace you need. with Christ you have everything including LOVE. pls just turn to Him and you'll never regret it. have a lovely day, dear.

Answer 5

just be your self!
someone will notice you! someone will go towards you and say "hello"
you say "hi"
then thats the start of being friends!
if not, just wait a little longer more until someone will!

Answer 6

you have too much free time on your hands,.