When the person your in love with and have been dating for over 3 years on and off and the thought of them sleeping with someone else... how does this make you feel?
2007-09-30 23:51:22 · 17 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
very upset.
2007-09-30 23:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by jester 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over reacting.
"And the thought of them sleeping with someone else",
3 years is long enough to get to know a person properly... If youre still not confident about his fidelity then what did you spend those 3 years on?
On those 3 years... did you ever build TRUST? Because this thought of yours is doubt. Oh you of little faith!
2007-09-30 23:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they actually done something or not? because if my fella was to sleep with someone else i would be gutted cos we have been together 6 years but i would have to get rid of him only because i believe once a cheater always a cheater.
I know it would hurt so much but you would constantly be thinking is he with someone else all the time and wouldn't like to go through that.
2007-09-30 23:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gemma C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this just happened to you Honey?
Last year I found my boyfriend of 3 and half years had been sleeping with other people and I was physically sick! I threw up and was lying in bed shaking all night and was a total zombie for months! I was really dtrong though and despite feeling gutted I knew I deserved better. a year on and I'm with someone who treats me like an absolute queen...... chin up!
2007-09-30 23:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by juicy_satsuma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me very upset but honestly there's not really anything you can do if it happened while you guys were on an off phase. You guys had called it quits for some reason and well you chose to get back with him so there's not much you can do about it. End things if you are really uncomfortable with it.
2007-10-01 00:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make me feel like not dating that person again.
2007-10-01 00:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ray D dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like hyperventilating and collapsing in a distraught heap ! It's the very worst thing he could ever do to me.I may possibly then have to do something mean-like clean the toilet with his toothbrush etc etc.....
2007-09-30 23:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by ruth e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes me feel pretty much like throwing up...deceived, extremely hurt, lied to..... like the whole relationship was just a lie
2007-09-30 23:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me feel cheated on and not respected. I couldn't ever forgive someone for doing that.
2007-09-30 23:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes you feel sick inside and ur stomach churns n its just such a horrible feeling! i remember feeling like that before, i wasnt in the mood to do anything, i just wanted to be left alone lol
2007-09-30 23:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're worries about that, talk with them. If they wont commit to you that might say something.
2007-09-30 23:54:59 · answer #11 · answered by greyghost_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋