ok everything has been going great foe a while now but he went and blew it on the weekend
we were both out and i seen him leading a girl into the other room by her hand, followed and seen them talking closely (we were both v drunk) i went over all guns blazing and he told me it was just his friend and so did she but they carried on talking closely and dancing! i again went over and he told me to go away so i made him choose me or her and he choose her and told me to f off
after he came over trying to b nice and i just told him we should leave, now im thinking wot to do!
2007-09-30 23:20:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you made two deadly relationship mistakes:
A) You pulled your gun out too soon. You should have waited and watched for a little while longer, eventually he would have done something that would give you more clarity on if they are just friends or not.
B) The second thing you did is said her or me. Never treaten a relationship unless you are totally ready to end it, and by asking him to chose you said just that.
And he said her....so no matter how nice he is right now, I would say he already made his choice and although it's better to do it now then next time he picks someone else over you.
For future relationships though, just go in knowing you are better then that other girl and ask "can I cut in?" No guns, just take her dance partner away and leave her by herself on the dance floor.
2007-09-30 23:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs do not make a right.
In this case, you were both wrong, it sounds like you should tone down your drinking, because when you drink it affects people and turns them into someone they are not, and before you know it, you are slamming eachother left and right.
Believe me, my mom and stepdad ended up getting a divorce, because they would both drink a lot and end up arguing a lot, and it just made them people that they were not, I remember one night I was sleeping, and they had this terrible argument, and my mom hit her hand on the counter, and the next morning I saw it, and it looked like a baseball glove.
Drinking does not only affect the people that have been drinking but if affects everyone else also.
2007-09-30 23:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy & i can honestly say DUMP HIM cos hes a cheat if acting like that.. wants both u & other girl it seems.. there will be a much better guy out there for you and, if he's worth it.. he will come to U... even with womens' lib, the guy should still be coming onto you first... it makes you feel better that way doesn't it? guys think too much with their thingys & not heads... i know cos i am a guy but prefer guys myself... if u can't trust him, DITCH HIM. hope u are ok big hugs xxx
2007-10-01 00:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by beaulocks2u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his sorry ***, he obviously doesn't care that much for you if he was willing to put your relationship in jeopardy over a "friend", if he ad to think about who was more important to him then he isn't worth your time.
Your deserve someone that actually cares about you and is willing to respect you , and he doesn't deserve anyone until he decides to start respecting people, especially the feelings of people he is closest to.
2007-09-30 23:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by q&a99 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked him to choose between you and her, he chose her and told you to F-off! The question is why did you talk to him after that whole incident, you dont need someone like this in your life who is going to treat you like crap then come back as if nothing happened... and pretend everything is nice and peachy. Leave him.
2007-09-30 23:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him!
if he didnt do the deed this time
whats to say he wont next time!!
That is just not acceptable!!
2007-10-01 00:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to that, Its all about respect, so dump him`
2007-09-30 23:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by spunky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a disrepectful idiot. If he can tell you to f off when you are clearly upset i'd walk away girl. You deserve better. x
2007-09-30 23:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovely_blondelocks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how drunk you both were, he should never have spoke to you like that...do yourself a favour...DUMP HIM!!!
2007-09-30 23:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like your in same position as me. u want more but they are holdong back....I am thionking of breaking the relationship , perhaps you should too.
2007-09-30 23:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by tezz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋