Met a lady around a year ago, we liked each other a lot but I kind of messed her around in the process as I wasn’t sure if I want a relationship & lead her on slightly. She did a lot 4 me in the process by even putting a TV on credit for me worth 1,500 & was there for me through alot of things. I ended things for good as I really liked her but didn’t want a relationship at that time. I started to loose respect throught The year as she wouldnt come to terms that i didnt want a relationship. I started telling her things like go and get a man & stop callin & texin me!! I said I was going to give her back her money no doubt about that and that we were over! and started ignoring her calls. since then she has stopped callin & her number that I did hav has been switched off since july as this was in july sometime!
2007-09-30 22:53:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did like her very much, she was very very intelligent, ambitous and proactive. She just couldnt come to terms with the fact that I didnt want a relationship right now at this stage in my life. she has usually always ended calling even about the tv, she hasnt bothered at all for like 2-3 months. do you think she has moved on?
2007-09-30 22:53:22 · update #1
I think she's moved on. Which is great. What is it with people who suddenly "don't want a relationship" or become cold, cruel, withholding, and unavailable when someone treats you well? You don't to be bothered with someone who likes a person like you? Do you find affection disgusting, or do you simply enjoy taking advantage of people and hurting them?
Even if you didn't want a relationship, you should have treated her better. Don't lead people on, don't cheat on them, don't bilk them out of money like a common thief, and don't insult them for caring about you.
Why should she come back to you? So that you can treat her well when you feel like it, and like garbage otherwise? If you had been decent and broke it off gently when you were uncertain, you might be sipping coffee with her right now.
I hope she's learned the very painful lesson you shoved down her throat and will never even speak to you again.
I also will be looking for you on the defendant side of Judge Judy's courtroom.
2007-09-30 23:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by ThatGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never assume that love is enough to make a person stay or come back. Because when PAIN strikes the heart, LOVE fades away no matter how GREAT it was.
They're right...it was your loss---your BIG loss.
She has moved on!
2007-10-01 06:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by meatball 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was there for you, you shouldve told her then that you didnt want to be emotionally involved not before putting on a credit for you, sorry but just not manly dude...
2007-10-01 06:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by spunky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what do you think ? if you went through all that trouble to send her away, are you thinking of going back ? that 's not cool man !!! let the woman find someone who's going to love her.
2007-10-01 06:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, bet she's just hanging around waiting for you; after all you seem like such a catch! (payback..oh la la )
2007-10-01 06:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she did everything for you to stay.. she was hurt.. it wasnt her lose but yours.. probably she find someone who would love her just as she loves you.. i dont think so but shes trying..
2007-10-01 06:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by sai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DO YOU THINK ? EINSTEIN .
2007-10-01 05:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋