why would someone that use to text and call you all time and see you regularly all of a sudden not text and call for a week and ignore texts and calls from me, someone who did actually seem to like me?
2007-09-30 23:57:20 · 19 answers · asked by leighanne1232 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe they have found someone else.
2007-10-01 00:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has been over a week and counting since the last time the boy contacted you and now you're doing all the calling and texting and no response back, he is hinting that whatever the two of you had is no longer there. It does seem cowardly to simply avoid all contact like you never existed--which in my opinion is disrespectful. This person actions showed his true character, (even if his words says otherwise) he is someone that is unreliable, can not be depended on for nothing and I must say it again a coward. Even if he finally calls you back likely with some lame excuse, I will be weary of him because there is a good chance he will 'disappear' again. Trust me, I know these types and dealt with this type of crap before. Keep your head high and be glad that you will not have to invest anymore time with this guy or his mess in the future. You will thank yourself at the end.
2007-10-03 16:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some don't have the decency or the guts to actually tell the person they're seeing it's over. Does sound like he's moved on. Look at it this way, it sounds like you had a lucky escape if this is how he's happy to treat people. Better you find out now than a couple of years down the line.
2007-10-01 01:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by ☼ Jules ☼ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How wonderful it is to have some perspective, dear. After constantly asking yourself what direction your life is going, doesn't it feel great to finally feel as if you know? How very wise you are! Yet all this recent wisdom is exhausting. You feel as though you've made a long trip up to the mountaintop to speak with the learned wise person at the top. Now that you're back down in civilization, it's time to find a soft bed and relax for a bit.
Aami
2007-10-01 00:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you not doing the same as him now. You have asked this question five times in last three days. So you are IGNORING the answers. What answer are you waiting for.? Do that one.
2007-10-01 19:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they feel hounded (or stalked). I suppose they think you either want them for a relationship and they don't want that, or they are maybe just busy and haven't remembered you.
If they are of the opposite sex (or same sex for some folk!) and are in a relationship, it can be awkward to contact other folks of the opposite sex without arousing jealousy or suspicion in their partner.
2007-10-01 00:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by ewanspewan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of reasons... he might have fallen in love with you and be afraid to admit it, or his feelings might have changed... he might have met someone else or might just be a nutter to miss on a nice girl like you!!!!!
2007-10-01 00:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Est passé de velours ♥Rose♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u have dont something wrong.
u should send him a msg and ask him what is going on!
good luck
2007-10-01 00:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its over...just move on
2007-10-01 00:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jemmax 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on.... if someone really likes you they would do everything for you... ignoring is a bad sign
2007-10-01 00:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋