Ok, I have this crush in one of my classes, and he did not come to school today. I want to send him a message over at myspace/friendster and tell him that we have a quiz next meeting. Problem is, I am too shy!!! He was classmate before but I don't think he even knows me. Plus, he's 21 and I'm 17...What will I do? If you're the guy, will you appreciate it if I told you about the quiz/the discussion..? This guy that I'm talking about is kinda quiet...Not in the sense that he's really quiet, he's quiet I think because he doesn't wanna talk to anyone. Like he's so snobbish... But I REALLY have this HUGE crush on him. HELP ME!!! :-(
2007-09-30 23:53:58 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said I thought he was snobbish because he's a basketball athlete...
2007-10-01 00:00:18 · update #1
And, he's not my friend on myspace/friendster, so won't it be too obvious that I have this crush on him??? We really don't have any friends in common...
2007-10-01 00:05:20 · update #2
Thanks for keeping my hopes up, guys!! And I forgot to mention one thing, I'm kinda fat right now... waaaaa
2007-10-01 00:58:34 · update #3
Ok, just to have someone tell me that we have a quiz next meeting would be a great help to me anyway. I would love it if someone did that. And in your situation, id just say something like, "hey, i noticed that you werent in class today, and just wanted to let you know that we have a quiz next meeting. later" something to that effect is perfect. Dont have to say to much, or too little either. this is just a chance for you to get on his radar. I would bet anyone fifty bucks that if he is there next class, he will at least try to locate you to see who you were and put a face with who sent him the message. If he isnt too snobbish, he may even send a message back or approach you before class and thank you for the message. But for now, this is just a chance to show up on the radar. Nothing fancy, just to the point, and nice. Good luck
2007-10-01 00:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by godballa05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, if he's 21 and you're 17, he knows (or knows of) you. He would probably be flattered to know that you have a crush on him, which he should be able to figure out when you send the message.
At worst, he'll be better off knowing about the quiz, at best it will break the ice and may be the start of something great.
Write and send the message, there's nothing to lose and so much to gain.
2007-10-01 07:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bratinelle...you seem to get caught up in world wind.
You analyzed your situation and then didn't excute your answer. You already answered your own question.
When you said you know he is shy or snobbish and quite then you say your shy and thats why you won't do anything and so you ask us to help you.
Your question should be why am I so shy?
Shy girls tend to get into trouble trusting an older person to make decisions for you even when it comes to sex.
You could wind up in a world wind of trouble.
Take control of your life now before its too late.
2007-10-01 07:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry hun...just tell him something like this..
"Hey whats up? just wanted to let you know that there is a quiz next class...lol i think you were absent or something today...anyways just letting people know, cuz the teacher wasn't really clear in class, even I had to ask him/her afterwards..."
2007-10-01 06:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will appreciate it, go ahead and tell him about the quiz, so he can decide if he will take it or stay absent.(i wont go to battle if im not prepared) maybe you look at him a little snobnish, but maybe if you have a chance to talk to him, maybe you'll find out who he really is,
2007-10-01 07:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by WTF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my boyfriend this and he said he would not be put off if you sent a message and that you may be right he doesn't know you, but that doesnt mean he wouldn't want to get to know you. So send him a cool as in relaxed, message and see ....
Good luck. x
2007-10-01 06:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 21? Are you in college? If your still in like high school isn't he just a little to old to be going to school? Let him come to you.,
2007-10-01 07:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little out of your league age wise. He has to watch himself because you're underage and he could go to jail.
2007-10-01 06:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv him a heads up, and while ur at it, start talkin about music u like, its the best almost guaranteed way to hit it off with a guy.
2007-10-01 06:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by misteralex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, im quiet also. hes probably not snobbish, but shy also. do him a favor, talk to him. he wont mind. trust me. i wish girls would talk to me, instead of making me talk to them lol
2007-10-01 06:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋