Theres this girl that use to work with me who i like. We use to get along pretty well. She has left the company last week however i did not get the chance to get her contact details. I cant stop thinking about her . However, i can get her details from a mutual friend. Do you think i should contact her, however im afraid she might think im some sort of weirdo for tracking her down. What do you think?
2007-09-30 23:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she showed no special attachment to you when she worked there she will think you're a weirdo.
2007-09-30 23:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
option 1. move on with whatever's left with your life
2. go for her and be man enough to stand for what you feel towards her and whatever outcome would be, you'd get the feeling at least you did it?
3. wait for another girl who you'll probably like again and live with the same situation over and over
...isnt it a wonder we've got all the choices and answers but sometimes are too scared to of reality, whether the outcome will be positive or not?
2007-10-01 06:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by ktz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you mention it to the mutual friend, get them to suss her out for you. Or get her details and send her a good luck card, or something like that. That way she'll possibly contact you to thank you for it and you could take it from there.
2007-10-05 06:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll never know unless you try. You have a 50/50 chance, and if you don't go for it, you will always wonder "what if"..... so just find out now and save all the wondering later on in your life.
2007-10-01 06:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by suisse shoggi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the details from your friend. Contact her. If her reaction is good great. If her reaction is bad then let it go. At least you would know you tried.
2007-10-01 06:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means! there is no greater complement than to be tracked down. Actually, anything you do, as long as it comes from a heart motivated by sincere interest is amazingly nice. follow it up with persistence. You only stop when she tells you to.
2007-10-01 06:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by ysobelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of you first, are u confuse or u can defined ur feeling at the moment.... if u are sure u really have positive feeling towards her, why not go for her, buddy. i don 't think she will look down on you. if she is wise.. she gat to respect ur feelings... i guess love will tell it all.. who knows... she might be having same towards you too..... just make a move buddy.
2007-10-01 06:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by kinsbuk4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have yall talk before or held any type of conversation?? if like you were cool and like you knew her in a way that you were both cool, then it should be alright. it doesnt hurt to call or email a former co-worker and to see how here new postion or job is. jus ask her, like hows her new job and wutever.
2007-10-01 06:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by livin_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she went away w/o informing u be quits he doesn't want u to follow unless she gets back to u
2007-10-01 06:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you find out.Stop wondering and go for it!
2007-10-01 06:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋