Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

Well, a freshman's first Homecoming... Almost every shy boy fears it. I did until I took a step forward, and my confidence was fine. I decided to ask my classmate in World History to go to HC with me(first time I talked to a girl I liked and didn't fear it). I wasn't sure if she liked me or just thought of me as just a friend... She didn't really show signs of a crush on me, but also at the same time, sometimes, I thought, she did show signs(probably overthinking that).

Anyway... She agreed. Since I asked her to HC, I kinda talked to her daily for a bit, just asking how school was for her, about HC, stuff like that. But now, I've kinda slowed down... But, maybe I'm just overreacting.

Do you think I'm overthinking and overreacting, or is this perfectly normal. I believe I'm overreacting, and I've been calming down. Now, if I risk it and assume she likes me, then if she doesn't, I got a feeling my confidence will sink. Should I assume she likes me or think we're going as friends?

2007-10-02 11:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 11:38:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and she is a really good friend. she says she is straight but she is always hanging on me and calling me sexy and baby and saying we could be such a cute couple. People think she is a major lezzy but i always thought thats just her personality. But i mean she has been really weird latelty around me. Telling me how beautiful my eyes are. Smiling and staring at me. Running her hands through my hair. Giving me compliments and jumping on me. Her personality is like that and she hugs everyone but does it sound like she is taking it a little to far and is interested????

2007-10-02 11:37:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honest answers please!
Delicate disposition at stake!

2007-10-02 11:36:22 · 25 answers · asked by Cab Sav Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

# 1.Let me use your cellphone today since you will be working and you have a phone at work. Mine doent have any minutes, i have to take care of some business and i will need to do it on the phone i dont have a house phone. were a couple whats the problem with me having your phone while your working?
#2. I need my cellphone in case of and emergency so what i have a phone at work.

2007-10-02 11:35:13 · 65 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys does it matter if a gurl is shorter then you because I am shorter then my boyfriend

2007-10-02 11:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Proud mommy 1 in Singles & Dating

your someone asked your boyfriend asked how long you two were going out, and he said a week, and it had been three weeks.

i dont know how to take this because my boyfriend did it.

2007-10-02 11:32:20 · 18 answers · asked by ♪ladida♪ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 5'10 and most boys I like, and would consider, are about 2 inches shorter than me. Does it really matter to you, and does it make it awkward and strange at all?
what if I look like this (does it make it weirder, or better?)
and what if i asked the question, and you knew what I looked like: http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1171/1469871758_4b8504a34a_b.jpg

and me w/o makeup: http://flickr.com/photo_zoom.gne?id=1469019327&context=photostream&size=l

thats all. And you can think Im vain if you want i guess, or that Im really unsure of myself, but I just want to know, gosh darn it!

2007-10-02 11:27:52 · 7 answers · asked by madame r 3 in Singles & Dating

what do guys look for in a girl? and what are turn ons/turn offs? Thanks.

2007-10-02 11:25:43 · 10 answers · asked by Bernadette 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been going to the gym for 3 months now....almost every time I go there (4 times a week) he looks me in the eyes for like 3-5 sec at a time, multiple times while im working out. I not wearing anything revealing and im not looking back at him ( i can tell from the corner of my eyes). I know I look alot older than i am but im very confused?
I dont have a brother (im not close to my dad) so i need your male advice?

2007-10-02 11:25:14 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

22 gm good looking brown blonde 5'4 145 just moved here to cclarkston mi 2 days ago n wanna hook up w a guy. i preferr older 35 to 60. gimmee a shout out n well c from there

2007-10-02 11:25:07 · 1 answers · asked by twnk22 1 in Singles & Dating

Physical or Emotional pain?

2007-10-02 11:22:42 · 18 answers · asked by HELP! 2 in Singles & Dating

when u r done reading this wat r u thinking about?

2007-10-02 11:19:36 · 33 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to figure out the best way to put my dad's name and dates on a headstone for my mother's grave. He chose to be cremated and it seems not quite right to make a headstone with both their names on it as if they are both buried in the cemetery when only my mother is. But I can't think of another way to do it. Any ideas would be a great help.

2007-10-02 11:15:53 · 3 answers · asked by Steve H 5 in Family

2007-10-02 11:10:31 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically, I had my heart broken by my first boyfriend. I went through hell, just to be cheated on in the end. Thats over and done with, but the mistakes i've made (sacrificing my morals and values to make him happy) still haunt me ; i'm trying so hard to forgive myself, and turn this into a lesson. On top of that, my 2 best friends betrayed me as well. Our friendship is over, because I refuse to let anyone else take advantage of my kindness again. This all is having a heavy toll on my heart though. Deep down, I still feel greatly hurt and emotionally pained. I want to get back on track and be the girl I once was, who stayed true to herself and to God. Will this ever be possible? Please I need words of encouragement right now =( Thank you so much in advance

2007-10-02 11:08:39 · 20 answers · asked by princess3arabi 1 in Singles & Dating

one night while we were out drinking we got into a fight. she threw her (our) wedding rings away. i never bothered to look for it. so she left and god know what she did that night. i went home. ever since that night our marriage changed. i feel she don't love me. we hardly do sex, maybe once a month or none. it was alcohol that distroyed our marriage. to this day i feel like i'm not even married to her. everything changed. in your opinion what do you think. P/S. we stopped our wild ways. tell me what you think i should do. i need some advice.
we have three grown kids and one is still at home being a mommy boy.

2007-10-02 11:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-02 10:59:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you have a man who does his job as a man, and his wife cheats that almost unforgiveable. If a man cheats, its probably because the wife stops having sex.

2007-10-02 10:59:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know sexually almost every guy wants a girl that looks like a porn star, but what I want to know is romantically would a guy like a girl to look like that?

2007-10-02 10:58:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately ive become really annoyed and frustrated with my dad. today just seemed to be the icing on the cake cuz i just cant take it anymore! he always watches tv, talks about his stupid antigue car, talks about things i really dont care about, and he SLEEPS ALL THE TIME IN FRONT OF THE TV! this is getting old cuz he tells me that im always on the coputer (wich im not) and he cant see that hes always watching tv and sleeping! also he told me that my little brother (hes 4) asked why i dont call my stepmom mom, so he wants me to call her mom! im not calling my stepmom mom! and lastely, today was my stepgrandmas birthday and we were supposed to go out to eat but my lil bro had a tummy ache during lunch so my dad is makin me stay with him and my lil bro while my stepmom goes out to eat! im tired of all these little things! im sorry if it seems like im just unloading all this but im just fed up! what can i do to release my extreme frustration? btw im 15.

2007-10-02 10:50:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i love u ania but.can some one ask me if she realy loves me.cos ido u know love is blind it dosen/t matter where u from or who u r r.

2007-10-02 10:46:34 · 9 answers · asked by sulaiman k 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl is in my grade (high school) and she is previously suicidal and a self mutilator. She is really falling for me even though i make it clear im not interested. She passes me notes in class, she tries to make every "hi" into a conversation and its getting irritating. Im afraid if i say the wrong thing she might relapse into depression. Thanks for the help,

XXXXXXX

2007-10-02 10:46:33 · 19 answers · asked by x_mystry_x 1 in Singles & Dating

im a plus size 16 year old. so today in class a select few people was making fun of me because im fat. a few of these people i considered myself cool with until today. i dont understand this? why is how i look such a big damn deal, im comfortable with me, and how i look why cant everybody else be? im the type of person that doesnt let things phase them...but they took stuff waaay to far man...i mean the whole class period...i just ignored them, im at a point in my life, they cant say anything i havent heard...but i just dont understand what these kids parents did to them? so cruel...im not the only one they make fun of either...

2007-10-02 10:45:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You are in a relationship, and you are hitting on another person (but not going as far as kissing or further).

2007-10-02 10:45:14 · 20 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Singles & Dating

about your really good friend, turned out to be gay. Like u really really know because u sord of knew all along, but then when u saw something that u really shouldn't have that really proved they were. She tried to make up an excuse for it to my face but in my head, i was like why can't you just tell me. I understand why shes so afraid because i wont be her friend or anything (when she knows i would never stop being her friend), plus shes reallly i mean really self-conscious but she truly is a gorgeous girl. The worst part is when we were younger she told me but not really.. like she said she was closer then normal to her bff, and then i told her okay, then she tried to take it back and all like it was a sin. The thing is i just really want HER to tell me instead of trying to hide it, or lying to me cause it hurts. What should i do?Confront her about it, but its honestly the hardest thing to do ever. n she and her "bff" were gonna come out when their in 12th and here we are, in 12th.

2007-10-02 10:44:48 · 1 answers · asked by superpython6 2 in Friends

he and i were a virtual one night stand that lasted a few months,then i became pregnant and he disappeared. he was 25 i was 18 now im 26. but he has always said that he should have taken me seriously and pursued a relationship with me but did not bc i was so young. now hes telling me he wants custody and i have 2 weeks to get ready to battle him and his lawyer in court (when i cant even afford a lawyer but do have a degree in criminal justice) when he hadn't seen his son in almost a year and has never been around consistently then pops up for a picnic this weekend. all of a sudden im an unfit mom and he wants custody, what do i do???????????????

2007-10-02 10:44:45 · 1 answers · asked by Purrfect 10 1 in Singles & Dating

it's kind of weird

2007-10-02 10:44:32 · 1 answers · asked by Summer 2 in Singles & Dating

If you do you would help me step by step on what to do with these literal equations...

1.) 2/3d = 8/3d - w [solve for w]


2.) p = 2w + 2l [solve for w]

2007-10-02 10:41:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can you suggest the best material, or whether to get a hoop and just how big I should get? This is my dress http://www.sinceritybridal.com/eu_en/collection.php?linenum=70&totlines=91&disc= style 3159. Thanks all!

2007-10-02 10:39:51 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Weddings