one night while we were out drinking we got into a fight. she threw her (our) wedding rings away. i never bothered to look for it. so she left and god know what she did that night. i went home. ever since that night our marriage changed. i feel she don't love me. we hardly do sex, maybe once a month or none. it was alcohol that distroyed our marriage. to this day i feel like i'm not even married to her. everything changed. in your opinion what do you think. P/S. we stopped our wild ways. tell me what you think i should do. i need some advice.
we have three grown kids and one is still at home being a mommy boy.
2007-10-02 11:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you should both go out to the beach and sit and talk and say what in your hearts and go from there. I think you both hold lots of things that have to come out so that things can get good. Talk to each other and ask each other if your still in love or not.. It is best to know now then later.
2007-10-05 12:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk...plan an evening...something special. She probably is feeling the same way you do...so open up..chat...you need to be friends again before you can be lovers.
At least you know mostly of what destroyed your marriage, and as u you have mentioned you have both changed your ways...thats awesome. So work at it. Nothing good comes easy!
As for your son that is still at home....he must be closer to his mom by what you call him..."mommy's boy" ever wonder why he is like that? Maybe she spends more time with him? Maybe she is more supportive of him? Encourages him? I don't see any harm in that!
Things won't change unless you do something about the situation...
2007-10-02 18:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by myth 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I would say that it truly was not alcohol that destroyed your marriage. Alcohol was simply the conduit. Your marriage was destroyed because of choices that you and her made. If you guys are not happy then consider ending the relationship. This is a short life. One cannot waste it being unhappy. Your children are all grown up so they don't factor in. and the one that is still living at home can live at home with his mom. Why stay together if you guys do not love eachother?
2007-10-02 18:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lorena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man you should have gotten the clue long ago..no one sahould go through this..get out life is already short enough there are girls out there that are thriving to find a good faithful guy like you
2007-10-02 18:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding the moon again together with your wife.
Good luck and take care
2007-10-02 18:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sorry deleted 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need counceling or a separation
2007-10-02 18:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by lil ol me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋