Well, a freshman's first Homecoming... Almost every shy boy fears it. I did until I took a step forward, and my confidence was fine. I decided to ask my classmate in World History to go to HC with me(first time I talked to a girl I liked and didn't fear it). I wasn't sure if she liked me or just thought of me as just a friend... She didn't really show signs of a crush on me, but also at the same time, sometimes, I thought, she did show signs(probably overthinking that).
Anyway... She agreed. Since I asked her to HC, I kinda talked to her daily for a bit, just asking how school was for her, about HC, stuff like that. But now, I've kinda slowed down... But, maybe I'm just overreacting.
Do you think I'm overthinking and overreacting, or is this perfectly normal. I believe I'm overreacting, and I've been calming down. Now, if I risk it and assume she likes me, then if she doesn't, I got a feeling my confidence will sink. Should I assume she likes me or think we're going as friends?
2007-10-02 11:43:10 · 4 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not really....your position has never been better than it is right now. No matter HOW things go you've taken a big step forward, and nothing can undo that so your confidence shouldn't suffer in the slightest. Your task now is to ensure that you face the next hurdle (and each successive hurdle thereafter) with the same courage you mustered this first time around. As to where you stand with this young lady, either way your position is cherry. Friends is a good place to start, but if you're fortunate enough to be further along than that, the task now is to maintain it. (Friends might be easier until you actually get to know her better.)
2007-10-02 11:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You already did the hard part by asking her out. Since she accepted and didn't laugh or anything, she must like you enough to be seen at HC with you. You're nervous, and overthinking is perfectly normal, even if it can drive you crazy sometimes.
2007-10-02 11:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by ThicketBasilisk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 23:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said yes then you got nothing to worry about. Dont overthink it i know how it feels im the same way
2007-10-02 11:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by pogieboy316 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋