Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

i am 18 and a senior in highschool i have a crush on one of my teachers who is 22 years old and hot.outside of school he's never come onto me but we've been out to lunch together a few times,he gives me compliments and we flirt with eachother.i want to date him. is this wrong,will he get fired if we do?

2007-10-02 02:49:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you suffer from low sex drive?
my husband doesnt eem to understand that with a child at home and a house to look after, and with him working afternoon shifts ( he comes home around 1.00am or later,) that im not in the mood. im tired, and the last thing i want to be doing is wke up and find a hard thing (excuse the pun) poking me at 1 or 2 in the morning.
ive told him that on w.ends is fine, but even then im too tired to do anything.
doany other women have this prob?
by the way im only 25, so no, im not going through the change of life. lol
please help if you can

2007-10-02 02:49:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfrined has a medical worry, its personal but trust me it is a cause for worry, and i dont know how to comfot him about it, he has a doctor appointment tomorrow but i dont want him to keep beating him self up over it, how can i make him feel better but at the same time keep my own fears at bay.
what makes things worse is he works at the cancer center at the hospital, so thats all thats going through his head.
Please help me help my baby!!!! i care so much about him and would die if anything would ever happened to him.
how do i comfort him?

2007-10-02 02:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by sharpie2292 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A woman who drinks, some kind of alcohol is considered a very huge plus to me! My wife does not knows this. Even though I always tell her to drink with me. Something! Anything! I been trying to get her to drink with me and have good times, being tipsy for the past 15 yrs of our marriage. She did at one time drink some barytle and james wine coolers, but she has completely stop drinking with me. she is very healthy. But she will never never join me in any type of fun in life, such as in this case, loosen up, get tipsy and go out dancing with me. My wife because DOES NOT like me for who I am. I am very extremely open minded and she is very extremely closed minded, so we pretty much contradict each other alot!!!! I always struggle very hard to be as happy as possible, in my marriage of 15 yrs. I NEED THE BEST ADVICE ON THIS ONE!!! From the most experienced! WHAT IS THE BEST gentle alcoholic drink, for me to introduce to my wife???

2007-10-02 02:43:15 · 24 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She's bright and talented but just don't wanna go to school no more and she'd be a senior next year. Her twin sister has a baby AND still attends her senior year. The girl don't want to work either. She has had 2 jobs and quit each before her first payday too! Any advise? BTW, she don't live at home no more cause the others (siblings) voted her to stay gone.

2007-10-02 02:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive been with my partner now for 2 years he has 2 children and in the last week we have got a house together...his mother has never liked me hes a real mummys boy which really annoys me as soon as we fall out he goes runnin to mumsy also his mum always goes to his exs house and she always goes to his mums and now we have our house i found it a real shock realising that i have his kids to look after on a weekend...i keep denying it but i really dont want it im 20 and my partners 28 i want him not his baggage aswell...by the way he nevar saw his kids until a year into our relationship as his ex would not let him see them....i hate it when he has to go to her house to pick them up and i dont know what they are saying to each other and i get jelouse when the kids are round him all the time and i cant get near him...i no i probebly sound a jealous paraniod b**ch but im finding it really hard to bond with his kids get on with his mother and starting to ask..is he worth it?

2007-10-02 02:41:05 · 6 answers · asked by barrytho 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

saturday i went to look at dresses for my friends wedding and her cousin is in the bridal party. we were told to bring the shoes we are going to wear (she already told us she wants us to wear silver heels) and her cousin showed up wearing 5 inch silver shoes with a chrome mirror heel and that lace up to halfway up her calf...they resemble exotic dancing shoes and are not wedding approppriate. my friend told her she couldnt wear them and the girl threw a fit saying that the bride is just jealous of her looks and basically said that she was NOT going to tone down her "sexiness" (her words not mine) just to appease the bride..it would be one thing if she had a long dress but the bridesmaids dresses are knee length so she wont look classy...my friend wants to disinvite her completely but her mom said family is obligated and she has to come..she isnt the MOH so it wont be a huge issue to uninvite her..what would u do?

2007-10-02 02:39:29 · 30 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Weddings

2007-10-02 02:36:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i don't want to be around them,or see them or be subject to them.i have been so unhappy since i was 8 years old living in this house and feel resentment that they still feel they are more adult then i am.My father is incredibly immature and my mother excessively cleans every day and screams at me if i decide to go for a shower at night or some such thing.I know for a concrete fact i am more intelligent then they are and yet im still spoken down to.I feel all of this really constricts my growth as a person,causing me to regress.I dont mind having adults to look up to,but my parents i know are never going to be my heroes,i don't respect them,they had no idea how to parent and left me suffering depression for half my life.imi want to be around the adults who i admire and revere in college ie.my lecturers and learn how to be and who to be from them,people who treat me with respect and let me feel i have potential to achieve anything i want to.is it wrong that i don't want to be around my

2007-10-02 02:34:19 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

family , love

2007-10-02 02:34:18 · 35 answers · asked by ASEEL R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this boy that has a gril friend and he has cheated on her with me and i feel bad.

2007-10-02 02:32:08 · 17 answers · asked by i am unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl is a virgin im not and ive enver been with one but i absolutly love this girl and i plan on being with her forever weve been together for 6 months and weve decided to go further i just was wondering if there was a way of "popping her cherry" without causing any or too much pain whats the ebst way to do it and ladies feel free to give me any tips

2007-10-02 02:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i use to really like this gir her name is ross. ross started to going out with in other guy. so i stoped talking to her so me and ross best freind started talking and i think im kinda like her best friend but not really idk if i like her or i just want someone to have fun with idk i dont want to sound like a jerk. but ok do u guys think i should go out with the best freind or no im i moveing to fast or whats going on plez HELP. oo yea and my b day was a week ago and me and ross havent talked for a long time and she send me a text saying HAPPY BIRTH DAY whats up with that

2007-10-02 02:31:30 · 2 answers · asked by eggz11 1 in Singles & Dating

Then I really mean SLEEPING. I don't envy my future wife, if ever I have one, because I toss, turn and fart in bed. I can't see how you could tolerate that while sleeping...

2007-10-02 02:30:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it I keep hearing women complaining about how they can't find a nice guy and they only find assholes...we do exist and we try hard to keep ourselves the "nice" guy but it's hard when every girl we get with play head games and cheat and do whatever possible to hurt us. My questions is why do we always hear you complain about there not being any nice guys but when you find one we get treated like dirt...?

2007-10-02 02:30:24 · 21 answers · asked by sakrificetheory 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 02:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2 in Family

Have you ever had or thought of having a threesome with another woman or man since you have been married?

2007-10-02 02:27:26 · 21 answers · asked by verrico98 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do all women with children, look at men without children, as guys that do not have a clue how to raise children, even if they are married or were married to a woman with children?

2007-10-02 02:27:06 · 26 answers · asked by get the facts right 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a medical examiner found that a person Cause of death was accendental would you think that someone would be eligible to claim the insurance. I don't understand none of this and would like some advice. Would you think that the insurance company would look at why the death was accendental and if by some chance you couldn't claim the insurance because it wasn't like a car accident or something, but not knowing that you were overdosing on medicine.

2007-10-02 02:27:06 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is the story.
My boyfriend of 7 months loves to talk about his ex girlfriend. He told me she still writes him that she misses him. He has been talking about her constantly (it has been annoying me but I didn't tell him to stop), so last week I told him stories (good and bad) about my ex boyfriends and how at one point I used to date different guys at once. I think now he is turned-off by that and acting strange, and I feel very stupid. Have I done wrong? I just did what he did to me (I know it sounds childish), but haven't you experienced this jealous over your boyfriend/girlfriend's ex-partners?

2007-10-02 02:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK my next door neighbor is married he is very hot . he is strong looking and very sexy . I do not think he gets along with his constantly bitching wife much anymore . A few weeks ago i was doing laundry and i put some out on the line , Later it felt as a pair of panties was missing. The same thing next week . So i set out to figure it out i put lots of panties out there . And i hid out of the corner of the yard i see hott mike walk right up to the panties and take a pair . i was sort of shocked he took my favorite pair to . Why did he do this? I wonder what he is doing with them ? should i confront him ? is he sniffing them ? is he Wearing them? any one have answers? what do i do ?

2007-10-02 02:23:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i recently broke up! but ,of course, i want him back! he said that he just wants to be real GOOD friends but i cant except that! i ask him for the REAL REASON and he says the same thing! do you think that i bother him too much? we have been broken up for about 1 1/2 now and he acts like we're friends! but its clear that i want more than a friendship! what do i do to pursuade him that we bolong toghether? how long should i wait to try (if any)? if he wont take me back how do i get him to tell me the real reason he broke up with me? do i seem to clingy! its not like i go up to him all day long and say why. why, why! i've only said it like 2 or 3 times and i was like" can you give me a real reason and not some bull-ish excuse?" and he'll say i said it already!he's nice about it! and i'll tell him that i deserve a better answer than that! i dont go around following him or anything ! when to you tink is enough? am i going too far?

2007-10-02 02:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by jazey15 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 02:19:00 · 24 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 in Singles & Dating

I am still stump on what I should get my boyfriend for our 6 yr. anniversary. It is the 10th.

2007-10-02 02:18:47 · 1 answers · asked by soccergirlie1612 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My father goes, and just out of the blue ( because he's drunk and on a hangover, most likely) says to me when i came out of my room " oh look it's the big baby, wanting mommys attention, always im competition, the big baby" etc etc to me. My mom was there and she was telling him to go to bed cause he was being stupid. And then as he's walking up the hall he goes " all she is just one big ******* baby".

I then said " at least im not a p rick like you ". Which im in trouble for now. .Then while he's in his room, i hear him say " the f ucken *** hole". Now im not complaining or anything, i just want to know if you think this was a fair thing for me to have said? Considering, i didn't do anythign to make him say this, other than saying that the show was half over and that i didn't want to watch it. And shoud i now be grounded in my room for the night? Thanks so much!

2007-10-02 02:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we been together for 5 months now my boyfriend confessed he cheated on me.the first time by talking on the phone to some chick then he told me he did more when i found a condom wrapper in his car he said he only recieved oral and thats what he used the condom for because i dont do it to him. he also finally told me i know the chick,but he wont tell me who it is and i have no idea.he says he's sorry and that he wont do it again and has been buying me nice gifts everyday,i forgave him but sometimes i want to break up with him because im still angry.

2007-10-02 02:14:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If he really loved her, why did he cheat on her with me? And even get me pregnant? Now he goes back to her. I dont understand why he is closer to their kids and her and not me and my girls. If he wanted her so much he wouldnt have cheated right?

2007-10-02 02:12:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 14 years.
I love my wife I just do not know what to do anymore. Somedays I feel I am going crazy and my heart feels empty.
Do I leave, Do I stay and support her, What do I do?
She had an affair for approx a year over 3 years ago
Since then she says she has no passion for me but loves me.
She said she was not herself when she had the affair
I do believe she loves me but question it alot.
I just can't stand that I do not feel the love from her and she can not show it.
Since the affair I have battled depression.
We have 3 beautiful children
I know that before our affair work and money came first to me.
I have tried to change (Actually I have changed) I asked her what she needed from me. She said a listener and I have worked very hard at doing that.
I have told her that I have needs and have been very straight up on what those needs are. Things that I love are long kisses, Out of the blue affection, a night out, touching. She will not try any of them

2007-10-02 02:11:14 · 26 answers · asked by PS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the story.
My boyfriend of 7 months loves to talk about his ex girlfriend. He told me she still writes him that she misses him. He talked about her constantly (it has been annoying me but I didn't tell him to stop), so last week I told him stories (good and bad) about my ex boyfriends and how at one point I used to be very promiscuous (dating different guys). I think now he is turned-off by that and acting strange, and I feel very stupid. Have I done wrong? Have you experienced this jealous over your boyfriend/girlfriend's ex-partners?

2007-10-02 02:10:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but he doesnt no how much its hurting me. Not seeing him, he doesnt understand that hes stopping me from going to school. i want to write him a letter telling how much i want him back in my life. can u please help me i dont no what to write luv susan

2007-10-02 02:09:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce