My boyfrined has a medical worry, its personal but trust me it is a cause for worry, and i dont know how to comfot him about it, he has a doctor appointment tomorrow but i dont want him to keep beating him self up over it, how can i make him feel better but at the same time keep my own fears at bay.
what makes things worse is he works at the cancer center at the hospital, so thats all thats going through his head.
Please help me help my baby!!!! i care so much about him and would die if anything would ever happened to him.
how do i comfort him?
2007-10-02 02:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by sharpie2292 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just love him and let him know he means a lot to you no matter what the challenge
2007-10-02 03:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by meka33311 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Always look to the bright side. Talk to him about it when he wants to talk about it, but don't press the issue with a million questions because it'll only make him think about it more. Do a lot of fun things together to take him mind off and it and also don't treat him like a sick old man. Treat him like you usually would (with a certain level of sympathy, of course) and help show him that life can still be normal, even with a serious medical condition. Don't let him wallow in the guilt or worry. Do what you can to keep things normal and happy.
2007-10-02 09:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lunar Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even though it's difficult, try to be optimistic about the whole thing(and a little sexual favor never hurt)
2007-10-02 09:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you love him and will be there for him no matter what.
2007-10-02 10:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by donielle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just be there for him.Be positive and no negetive thinking.It could bring both of you down and that,s not good.
2007-10-02 10:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love him, & stay by his side.#
2007-10-02 09:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
spoil him
2007-10-02 09:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋