we been together for 5 months now my boyfriend confessed he cheated on me.the first time by talking on the phone to some chick then he told me he did more when i found a condom wrapper in his car he said he only recieved oral and thats what he used the condom for because i dont do it to him. he also finally told me i know the chick,but he wont tell me who it is and i have no idea.he says he's sorry and that he wont do it again and has been buying me nice gifts everyday,i forgave him but sometimes i want to break up with him because im still angry.
2007-10-02 02:14:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a liar and a cheater so if your looking for love he's not the one for you. and it sounds like he doesnt cover his tracks well so to find out who the girl is just look in his phone or check your friend's phone or the phone bill.you will most likely see a number there that you reconize.whoever the girl is stop knowing her,dont ever talk to them again,change your number .you'll get over it soon. you can surely find a great honest guy.
2007-10-02 03:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over.....
Leave him.. He's a liar a cheater and you'll never be able to trust him again. It'll always be in the back of your mind. Gifts don't take away what he did. If he had the thought to get a condom, you know he had thought the whole thing through and didn't think of you...just sex with some girl you know. I'm sure it was more than oral...and even if it was only that. Why isn't that bad enough? The more girls let guys get away with this...the more it's gonna happen. Men (and women) have to learn...you play you lose.
Do you feel like that's all you deserve is someone that doesn't think of you, but instead of his own needs. You'll be happier if you just be sad and break up now instead of torturing yourself.
The first time cheating is the hardest...after that it' easy...so expect more of the same if you stay there.
2007-10-02 02:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by Randy L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can away from this guy. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. Dont ever forget that. and for your information most women dont give a ******** to a condom. You need to open your eyes and see that this guy is playing you and you deserve a hell of alot better. Go out there and find a real man because right now you are dealing with a loser that will only get worse. He lied to you about the whole thing and that should give you the clue that he is wrong and you deserve better.
2007-10-02 05:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt read this whole thing and dont have to he may be sorry but doesnt mean he is not going to do it again I have 2 of my best friends that are chronic cheaters so I will say what I always say and you do with it what you will get rid of him and find someone who will treat you with respect cause you stay with him you will always wonder if he cheating again and you probably wont ever be able to trust him again anyways. But good luck make the right decision he didnt just get oral number one a girl prolly is going to like the taste of latex number 2 no one does oral with a condom just stupid
2007-10-02 02:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by can only give advice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about something for a minute. Oral sex is not done with a condom. Have you ever had latex rubber in your mouth? I would think that would rouine the mood. You need to break it off with him, He has not told you the whole truth. So what is going to happen when he wants oral again? You won't do it, he will go to someone that will. He is still guilty if he is buying you gifts everyday. Walk away while you can.
2007-10-02 02:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it's your life and therefore your decision to make but I think that this is a bad start to a new relationship as your trust in him will be questioned daily and you also said that you forgave him but then sometimes you are angry at him because of what he did, so I don't think you really forgive him. You need to look at the situation and determine if you REALLY want to be there. They always say they are sorry until we realise it's a habit.
2007-10-02 02:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five months is a relatvely short period of time for your boyfriend to break your trust. Don't be fooled by the attention he is giving you now, he is just trying to "win" you back and convince you that he did not have intercourse with this other girl. He probably did have intercourse with the other girl as condoms are not normally used for oral sex. Only you can decide what to do with this relationship, but if it only took 5 months for him to cheat, you probably are in for a rocky relationship. Good luck to you.
2007-10-02 02:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by miziejean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You believe that line of bull, then I have a bridge for sale cheep. Come on, what's the difference, oral-sex, just because he only got oral from her it's ok. If he told you they did it, would you leave him?. If I were him I would say the same thing too, but I know you love him and he said he won't do it again. Think about it.. good luck
2007-10-02 02:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying to you. He had sex with some other girl and then kissed you. Yuck. Ditch him. If he thinks he can get away with this...he's going to keep doing it. Trust me...he'll be sorry next time too. There's too many diseases out there to be with someone that cheats on you. Find someone that respects you. He should be sorry he cheated...he lost a great girl. Break up with him and forget about him. He won't even tell you who it was?? What a jerk. Seriously. You deserve better.
2007-10-02 02:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really 'prove' anything straight away. All you can do is promise to him that it will never ever happen again and keep your promise and hope he believes you. Since this has happened once, you can't be surprised that if he stays with you, he will have his eye on you for a while.
2016-04-07 00:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋