i am 18 and a senior in highschool i have a crush on one of my teachers who is 22 years old and hot.outside of school he's never come onto me but we've been out to lunch together a few times,he gives me compliments and we flirt with eachother.i want to date him. is this wrong,will he get fired if we do?
2007-10-02 02:49:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he likes you,you can tell him you like him also but you shouid not get serious with him now but if you really like eachother wait until you graduate highschool so you two will have nothing to worry about.
2007-10-02 02:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are 18 it isnt illegal in most states but there are a couple that actually have laws making it illegal for a teacher to date a student regardless of age. He could still get fired or worse- lose credibility with the parents, faculty and administration. I'd advise against dating him until after you graduate and to limit the lunches and other things as well unless he wants to leave his job and take one at another school in which case- have fun.
By the way, it is natural for both boys and girls to have crushes on their teachers- happens all the time. I had one on a couple female teachers and have been the object of a few of my students cravings- it is cute and flattering but dont take it too seriously.
2007-10-02 02:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to lie there are some good looking teachers out there. I'm a senior too but you have to wait or he could get in a lot of trouble. Even though you are 18 he could easily get fired for anything that looks like a date.
2007-10-02 02:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 23:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you are gonna do just what you have planned despite what the rest of us say, thats human nature. Where feelings are concerned, thats the way we always react. However, food for thought:
If he loses his job cos both of u acted on your "crush", would it all have been worth it? Maybe he won't, maybe he will...Truth is, your school authorities would frown on a relationship with a student, so be careful! Whatever you do, think about this:
"The consequences would affect you both!"
2007-10-02 03:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by HushP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a crush on your teacher as long as the two of you don't act on it.
Although legally you're grown, you're still a student and he's still your teacher.
Unless you want to get him fired and ruin his career, I suggest that you admire him from a distance.
2007-10-02 02:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Until you graduate from high school it is wrong to date him. Graduate, wait a year, go back and see if there is a spark.
2007-10-02 02:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will get fired. Stay aaway from him until you graduate. Then pursure him. It is illegal for a teacher to date a student and he will get in trouble. Be patient
2007-10-02 02:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Theresa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot date him while you're in school. Wait til you graduate then see what happens to him.
2007-10-02 02:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will lose his job if anything happens while you are still his student. The same situation happened at my school. Please wait until you are out of school to start dating him.
2007-10-02 03:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋