my boyfriend and i recently broke up! but ,of course, i want him back! he said that he just wants to be real GOOD friends but i cant except that! i ask him for the REAL REASON and he says the same thing! do you think that i bother him too much? we have been broken up for about 1 1/2 now and he acts like we're friends! but its clear that i want more than a friendship! what do i do to pursuade him that we bolong toghether? how long should i wait to try (if any)? if he wont take me back how do i get him to tell me the real reason he broke up with me? do i seem to clingy! its not like i go up to him all day long and say why. why, why! i've only said it like 2 or 3 times and i was like" can you give me a real reason and not some bull-ish excuse?" and he'll say i said it already!he's nice about it! and i'll tell him that i deserve a better answer than that! i dont go around following him or anything ! when to you tink is enough? am i going too far?
2007-10-02 02:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by jazey15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, well have you started to think that possibly its your WHYYYYYYY behavior that he is never on God's green earth coming back? It probably wasnt an excuse but now it is now that hes afraid of your ***. You cant force someone to be with you that doesnt and honestly Just reading the first half I can see if he moves away, changes his name, rocks a wig and disappears into the night. You seriously asked if you are going to far??? Honey your taking it like when mariah blamed jlo for her breakdown. How crazy do you sound when you say I cant accept that.. Um yeah you need to put an H on the chest and handle it you must because the way your acting has only pushed him even farther away from you and faster then britneys career going down in flames..
2007-10-02 02:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of the Scene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem clingy enough for him to want to break up with you. Honestly, I think you should move on, if he lost interest already there isn't much you can do to try and get him back. SO just try to find someone new and accept the fact that it's over and you two are just friends now. Good luck.
2007-10-02 02:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by Patty melt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that"s the reason he did break up with ya ?
May be is another reason of it . Try to find out . If the is another girl show your rule and tell her get the f.... out of here .
2007-10-02 02:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by falenish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you because they either do or they don't. Looking for "signs" that he might still be in love with you doesn't help either. Move on with your life, you deserve better.
2007-10-02 02:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by stiletto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the relationship is not what he thought it was going to be. I would just say to move on because his mind is made up.
2007-10-02 02:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will speak out of experience. it really pains so much realising that you love someone who doesnt love you. take my advice. he doesnt deserve your fight. go on .am sure you are still young. you will find someone else who will love and cherish you
2007-10-02 02:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love with him, but he isnt. i know how you feel, try spend more time out with friends and not him to get over him.
2007-10-02 02:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋