Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

We had made a luv mariage and Its 3 years now when I get abused for silly things every day now and then. Similarly, he also hits my 1.5 yrs old child. I am facing a lot of depression due to this Please reply.

2007-10-02 20:31:44 · 22 answers · asked by vaishali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a sand ceremony kit for my wedding tomorrow! I was getting everything together for tomorrow and i cant find the one i bought anywhere. I special ordered it on ebay so there is no time to get another like it. I am in southern california. does anyone know where i can buy a set of containers with stoppers in person asap?!! thank you!

2007-10-02 20:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Katie O 2 in Weddings

Is there any way I can get my bf to tell me what he wants sexually? Or can you give me any advice on what I can do to please him?? He was my first so I don't have any real experience so be nice.

2007-10-02 20:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Katelynn L 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 14, and i kinda have this " longing" or " desire" to have a baby, i know this sounds super weird. But everytime i see one, it's almost like i feel this motherly instinct in me?! I would never go out and get pregnant or anything at this age, but it's just this feeling i have sometimes? Is this normal?

2007-10-02 20:25:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i had to interview the second in command at my work for a college paper. we talked several times about the paper and ended up talking for over a hour about life, politics, society's expectaions in a small town, and how we should go after what we really want in life. it was a great conversation. he made a few hints that he might be interested in me. he's much older than me but i find him very much attractive. i have a b/f that is my age and i dont feel fulfilled in the relationship. my "crush" said that my b/f was obviously not doing things right and that he could. he didnt say it in a dirty way, i think he was joking but i dont know if maybe he was really serious about it. i'm going to be leaving my job to move to a nearby city soon....do you think he likes me...and would like to date me if he wasnt my boss? or am i just mistaking his niceness. smiles and sometimes blushes when we talk

2007-10-02 20:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by geva772002 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing him for 8 mos.and he has helped me through some pretty tough times and knows me better than I do.I am starting to feel he is developing some feelings for me too.I see him once a week and can't wait to see him.Any advice what I should do or should I just let it go till the subject comes up.He hasn't made any advances to me but he has said some things that have put up a flag.He has helped me so much I would hate to have to change therapist at this stage.But I would welcome a relationship with him too.I am unattached now and I am 59yrs old.He is in the process of a divorce.I would love to have another kick at the can so to speak as I was in a loveless relationship for 28 yrs. Any thoughts on this?

2007-10-02 20:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

did those guys offer anything beyond instant gratification?

did you have any long term relationships with any "bad boys"?

2007-10-02 20:09:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

woman is single 44 years old and guy lover/suitor is also single 33 years old. What can you say about the guys intention towards the woman and vise versa. Will they be a good pair? In what aspects?

2007-10-02 20:06:12 · 2 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Singles & Dating

I met up with this man about a year ago through my job . I was a cashier, he the customer. I needed someone to help me move who owned a truck. He offered to help me move. So course he was given my phone number.
Since then he has continuously called me. I had changed jobs. Same area basically. He walked into the store where I work. He now calls the store phone and tries to convince me to date him. I have told him over and over. No, I have a steady boyfriend. I declined his offer to help me move. I decided against it. He gave me the creeps. How do I handle this person. I have to answer my phone at work.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Is there anything I can do or say to turn his desires for me off?
I have trouble being rude and mean to people. There has been no threats. He is just irritating. He acts like I should have all this free time to be with him. He stands there and just
stares.

Sincerely,

Marseille

2007-10-02 20:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by marseillelangres 4 in Family

2007-10-02 20:00:32 · 14 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Singles & Dating

Be honest please! I like creative criticism. It feels like it's missing something, but can't put my finger on it.


My Proposal



I had the same dreams last night,
Where I wake up, and everything is right,
Her lips close to me as I open my eyes,
She is here loving me without fear.

A cool wind breezes the window curtains,
Pulling the comforter up, holding her closer,
I'll care for her forever, this I am certain,
Smiling bliss, knowing we'll venture further,

She smile, and doesn't say anything.
I am sure, because she is all I know,
I need her here to love and guide me,
So I take her hand, not travelling alone.

Extending my heart and soul in my hand,
I ask her to stay, she's everything I am,
To be with me on this adventure,
My compass and my key, I need her with me.

2007-10-02 19:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plyaing 24/7 , not having much responsbility, not working, being wild and crazy, having fun,

2007-10-02 19:49:13 · 7 answers · asked by JAMES699 1 in Family

If your friend ask you to meet to play pool, then they decided to go to coffee afterwards, but they didn't want you at coffee and they didn't tell you. Is it fair that she gets mad at you for joining them for coffee? She acts all innocent like i didn't say anything because it would hurt your feelings, then she tells people about how she didn't want you there, then get your other friend involved in telling you you how you should just know.

2007-10-02 19:48:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-02 19:48:01 · 20 answers · asked by 3 Godz in 1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 19:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you consider the most erotic or intoxifying part of the female body other than her breasts, a**, or vagina?

2007-10-02 19:42:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with this guy for 5 months now but tho he seems to be so sweet, humble and geneourus, i have a constant feeling that he isnt the right person for me. he wants us to be engaged this month and get married next year. i dont want to get engaged to someone only to break up later. Shud we stop our relationship? i am not so proud of him no matter how much i try, i dont want to waste his time but i also dont want to lose a potential hubby... what shud i do? Please advise according to God's ways

2007-10-02 19:31:36 · 23 answers · asked by haja 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a real catchy question? But seriously< all that is getting out of hand. Somebody need to get tired and say, hey, Iam just gonna wait for marriage. Aids is speading more and more< and people are cheating more and more. People dont seem to have any self control. Some people dont even care who they sleep with, just so long they just cool off. Men disrepecting woman. Lowering your standard, eventually you will have to pay a great price for your actions. God honor marriage, but people dont really seem to care about each other anymore. So much cheating and breaking up, and then some turn around a sleep with someone else the next day or nest week. It is sad< really someone needs to stand up and say, I've had enough< iam gonna wait until marriage.

2007-10-02 19:28:06 · 41 answers · asked by Deborah S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My family thinks I'm wierd. I know I am, they wouldn't even think about going towards the length of depression though. No one cares about how I feel, no one can comprehend my feelings. even I can't. I try my best to vent my feelings of hate and angst and unwanted feelings in stories that I write, but it's just not good enough. My parents take away every freedom I could possibly have and they think I'm happy zip-a-dee-doo-dah-day!!!!! Everytime I get into a deep conversation with someone I cry. that;s why i never talk to my parents. how can i tell them I'm depressed with out them thinking i'm just being wierd? because i can bet u anything i have mental problems. i just don't know what, and why am i writing so much??? GOD WHAT"S WRONG WITH ME?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? please someone help me!! from what i wrote just now, am i depressed or mentally ill? why can't i stop writing????? im gonna start crying. please help me.

2007-10-02 19:17:04 · 9 answers · asked by blue-a-touille 2 in Family

2007-10-02 19:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by vhcsmamma 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright it's not that she turns me on at 100%. And she doesn't even know that i'm bi. But I think she might be or shes just curious, because lately she's been acting weird. She'll touch my breasts (bc they're big), she's "accidentally" touched me down there lol, and we've often talked about girls dating,...but without her ever knowing that I was into it.
How can I tell she's like me? Should I ask her or make some kind of move? I'm scared though, bc she's never really said that she liked the idea, and plus she has a man.

2007-10-02 19:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

I am having a hard time with my boyfriend being gone. Does anyone have any suggestions about ways to cope? I know the first thing on everyone's mind is to go see a doctor but I have white coat syndrom. So any suggestions that I can do myself would be great. Thank you!

2007-10-02 18:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Countrygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

CLOSE friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

We're in the process of being close friends again...In the beginning when we first met, we "clicked' right away and could be able to talk to each other about anything and everything. We would always see each other in and out of classes, have lunch, and talk to each other almost every night. That was 3 years ago and obviously, THINGS change, PEOPLE change, and we change but it's not that we're growing apart - we're just growing up while adjusting to all this change...
It's different and i get scared that we'll lose our "closeness" but someone told me, "true things are never lost..." CAN WE STILL DO OUR OWN THING AND BE CLOSE? We used to talk all the time and now we don't call each other; not sure if it's a "guy thing" where they stop talking on the phone, we're both busy, or he's changed alot from the his friend's death...i'm sorry i'm just venting - THOUGHTS? I'd really appreciate it! THANKS

2007-10-02 18:53:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This doesn't seem to be just a teen - family blow up and she is not at home presently. Her mother knows and blames her so talking to her mom isn't going to be helpful. That being said...The girl does not want to go home but if she won't tell the police what help is available to her? Is there a safe place this kid can go long term? I know that I can report this to Childrens Services but I really believe that is not going to help because she refuses to tell on the s.o.b. There have been previous reports to Childrens Services of a suspected a problem between the girl and her step father. Childrens Services has been to the home and done nothing every time. Anyone have any suggestions? This girl really needs help. The person she is staying with can't keep her for more than a week due to the apartments policies on visitors. I do not want to see this kid go back to that home but I'm not able to take her in long term either. How can I help her?

2007-10-02 18:51:56 · 16 answers · asked by CM 4 in Family

How do u discribe a girls virginity in your ideas? I mean do u value it, do you just respect girls who is a virgin, do you marry only a virgin.

And how do u react if u get to know that your girl cannot proof her virginity eventhough u know she is pure and good.

Really want to know whether u guys look for ladies past more than the future.

Just need information for a research with regard to men's mentality on judging women.

2007-10-02 18:45:22 · 16 answers · asked by tin tin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am on webdate. Trying out this online line dating thing. It seems really great. I really met this fantastic guy we did connect there were a number of times I contacted him and he did the same as well (that is, both in email and chat only). The past three weeks. It has been five days that I have not chatted: IM him online. I have seen him online but did catch him online a couple of times. But I have been emailing him just saying hi and how he is doing but stopped 2 days ago. Don't know if I am being clingy or needy. I am new to this and to this date thing too. Just don't know, can see him online sometimes but I feel the need that he has to contact me first, i did contact him but then he apparently signed off. So don't know if he is avoiding me. Did email him everyday with short hellos and goodbyes. Don't know if I am doing something wrong. How do I know he is interested. Does the 3 day rule apply too? Or is there another name for emailing and chatting.

2007-10-02 18:43:16 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie K 1 in Singles & Dating

I too believe that sex should not be the foundation of a marriage. I think it is a very important part of the marriage, don't get the wrong, but I think that you should love, respect, trust and honor your spouse first and THEN sex will fall right into place. But if so many people say sex shouldn't be the foundation of a marriage, why are so many people getting divorced because of it?

You hear so many people complaining about sex on here, in conjunction with other issues (cheating, lying, etc.). Why are people to tuned into sex? Shouldn't they try to work out the other problems first? Just a thought.

2007-10-02 18:39:00 · 14 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he's been trying to get back together with me.. tellng me to break up with my current boyfriend and give him another chance,. i feel really bad for him.. but i love my boyfriend and i want to be with him, not my ex.. ive told my ex this over and over he doesnt care he just keeps saying " i miss you " "break up with him" "be with me not him" blah blah blah .. its breaking my heart to see him like this it would break my heart to see anyone like this, iknow how it feels its a terrible feeling .. how do i get him off my back and let me go?? in the easiest nicest way possible ANY advice.. my boyfriiend nor i can take much more.. =/

2007-10-02 18:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 now and I regreat this happend. I was young stupid and thought I was in love and he used that against me.

2007-10-02 18:34:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i am acting like alittle girl over this guy right, my signals are all sqrewed up so don't be too harsh on me. i work in a convieniance store right and there is this guy that comes in that i am gaga over, he is so shy, so my signals are mixed so help me out. my boss says that he stares at me when i'm not looking(but not a reliable source) he has a hard time looking me in the eye, tonight he walked all the way from his house to come in the store and buy two 25 cent slim jims, and i was real busy doing paperwork i was in a hurry took his 50 cents and proceeded reaching under the counter for something when i noticed he was still standing there, i just kept looking down at the counter like an idiot then he rushed out of there, and he smiles an says hi, but in a bashful way, i'm 90 percent sure he don't have a g/f, can sombody interpret thes signals for me. my guy meter is so off. right now

2007-10-02 18:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by Julie J 1 in Singles & Dating