Alright it's not that she turns me on at 100%. And she doesn't even know that i'm bi. But I think she might be or shes just curious, because lately she's been acting weird. She'll touch my breasts (bc they're big), she's "accidentally" touched me down there lol, and we've often talked about girls dating,...but without her ever knowing that I was into it.
How can I tell she's like me? Should I ask her or make some kind of move? I'm scared though, bc she's never really said that she liked the idea, and plus she has a man.
2007-10-02 19:03:33 · 10 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it certainly sounds like you and this girl are comfortable being around each other. What about a "girls night out"? Not necessarily getting drunk and doing something you might regret, but approach her and see if she would be interested in coming to your place for pizza and a movie. That gives you plenty of privacy to speak openly and freely. If its meant to be, things will unfold all by itself, but don't push the issue. Girls talk about all kinds of crazy stuff when they're together. Nonchalantly bring up the subject and see where it goes from there.
2007-10-02 19:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by peterbilt197 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your meat where you make your bread, unless you're working at Mickey D's slinging fries, and don't care if you leave (or on what terms).
This goes double for people who already have someone else in their lives.
However....... if you simply *cannot* restrain yourself, tell her a story, about a female friend who found herself curiously attracted to another woman. Watch her reaction(s). If there's any hint of disgust, distaste, etc. then ***drop it immediately***.
If not, you can gradually, CAREFULLY transition into revealing that you have the hots for her, and while you don't want to bust up her happy relationship with her man... you might be open to having a threesome with them.
Be aware though: you are playing with fire! Make sure that what you stand to potentially lose from a brief night of pleasure is worth the risk!
2007-10-02 19:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be direct, but subtle. Let her know that you're bi and you're interested in a woman that you're not sure of...this will of course open the door to a discussion about it. See how she responds. If she says that you should go for it or she's felt like that, then go for it darlin! Good luck!
2007-10-02 19:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a subtle hint (like brushing her breasts gently) and see what response u get. If it is positive take it ahead otherwise laugh it off as a mistake/accident....
2007-10-02 19:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the answer to this but I sure did enjoying reading the question.
Whatever you do, I hope that things work out well.
2007-10-02 19:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never get involved in any kind of romantic relationship with anyone you work with.
2007-10-02 19:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Play along and see what happens.
2007-10-02 19:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She has a man. She's unavailable right now.
2007-10-02 19:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with kathy r
2007-10-02 19:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with audie.
2007-10-02 19:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by pwrgrlmanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋